Rhiannon

I said some seriously bad things...

Basically we went through months of her emotionally abusing him but eventually it came to a stop, I thought it was all over, but today she reverted back to that. I was really angry because she was making him feel as though he had a problem and he was unwanted, so I began ranting about her to him. The trouble is...she then wanted to read his messages to me. And she saw everything. I even called her a 'c-u-next-tuesday'...

I don't know how I can face her again. I was angry but I know saying the things I did was largely unjustified. How can I fix it?

Not a christian or a satanist btw

I'm all for female empowerment but seriously, just no!

I have a boyfriend, we've been together for over a year now. I love him...but I keep having dreams (both asleep and daydreams) about his best friend's brother. He isn't even my type, he smokes weed and dresses really badly and sits on his xbox for all his spare time. But I can't stop thinking about him. We've only ever talked once over facebook, after he saw me crying in the locker room after getting targeted by some bullies, when he told me if it happened again he could sort it out for me because he was a prefect. He was kind to me despite being almost a total stranger, just another face in the corridor. Since then he's been diagnosed with schizophrenia.

Why is this happening? How can I love my boyfriend but be thinking of someone else so much, someone I normally wouldn't find attractive at all?

I'm 15, 16 this year, and I feel so stressed and trapped in this life. My mother is always moody and angry, I have a huge amount of work to do for my GCSEs and no peace at home. It seems that nobody respects my wishes and everyone thinks they're better than me just because they're older. They don't seem to realise how unhappy I am because of the degrading comments they make. I get bullied at school too because I'm a girl but I have a boyish voice, and I'm so unhappy with my appearance too, I'm overweight and I find myself ugly. I'm confused because I love my boyfriend but I have dreams about being with his best friend's brother, and I don't even know why I like him because he smokes weed and dresses weird and is pretty much anything other than the sort of person I normally find attractive.

And nobody seems to understand! They all just tell me I'm complaining but I feel like I'm about to crack under the pressure of being me...

I just want to be free, I crave freedom so much, I ache for it...why is it so hard? How can I make it better? Please help...

Rather than arguing about where life came from, how about for a short while we just agree to disagree and treat each other as human beings?

Because apparently god will send all non-christians to hell. Some loving father he turned out to be. Would you let your child suffer or would you just accept their mistake and love, protect and forgive them anyway?

I'm sorry but I would rather go to hell for all eternity than see my child die or live in pain due to not being given a blood transfusion. How can people do this based on a tiny section of the bible that was written at a time blood transfusions didn't exist? The passage refers to ingesting blood, not using blood somebody has willingly given up to save others. I would sooner burn for eternity than let my child suffer!

The solstice is here! How are you all choosing to observe yule? )0(