Kelela

I know...birth mom is not politically correct, but it's what we use and she is FINE with it. She is just sooooo happy to have her boy (my husband) back in her life after 50 years (yes......50!!!!!!) that I don't think she give's a rat's *ss if she is referred to as 'birth mom'. Anyway....sorry...soapbox. LOL We want to give her something to represent their first Christmas together. Any ideas????? Anything he gives her will certainly make her cry, she cries everyday still and this has been since July. LOL

Thanks in advance for any ideas. :-)

After buying this child whom she "proclaims" to LOVE........ she puts her on a plane to go to London with a nanny and 2 aides????? Can she not spend a little time out of her very busy schedule to go and get the child she LOVES soooooo much? ARGH!!! This woman is beyond ridiculous.

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090620/ap_en_mu/af_ma...

I have 2 children (ages 6 & 8) who we were blessed with at 15 mo and 2 years. They have always known us as their parents. Oldest has no memories of original or foster homes. When do we tell them? My husband was adopted and found out on his own in his 20's. He was 'shocked' to say the least. We would never wait and let them 'find out' but what do you think is a good time? Both kids have read about and seen movies dealing with adoption. They 'get it' and think it's a great thing. Just feeling like we need to get a plan going. Any input would be appreciated. :-)