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I will make this as brief as possible. First to start off my husband is black and I am Puerto Rican and we have been married for 2 years and He has two kids grown and I have two kids that live with us and we have two babies together.

I am really tired of his friends and family not accepting our marriage. First his best friend got married and he was in the wedding. I never got an invite and he was sure it was lost in the mail so I called the bride who I thought I was cool with and she gave me the address to the wedding long story short it was the wrong address and when I finally got to the location everyone who was in the wedding their guest set at tables 3 and 4 close to the head table. I was seated at table 20.

Then his cousin's wife had a baby shower a few months back and I never got my invite and I missed it. I called her for something not related to the baby shower and she was mad I was not there. I told her I never got the invite I don't think she believed me. So the following day he was in my house so I questioned him about it and he said that he did not send an invite because he knew my husband would not attend and it was for family only. I was pissed.

Now recently we received an invite to another one of his cousin's wedding. And it is next year but a distination wedding so they sent the invites now and ours said Mr So and So plus 1 I feel it should of read Mr and Mrs. So and So. My husband says I am reading to much into the situations and blowing it up for nothing. I told him I think its because I am not black. I just wish he would put his foot down and make them respect us or just don't even come around our home anymore. Now there has been more but this is just some of the reasons that cost some of our biggest arguements. Am I blowing this up for nothing or should he be saying something to defend me and our marriage to his friends and family?

I am 26 weeks pregnant with my fourth child. My children ages are 13, 4 and 14 months old. I want a baby shower. I never got one for my first two and for my last child I was given a baby shower by my co workers at lunch.

Well I have told several people I want to do my own baby shower in about 8 weeks at my house and invite my close friends and several close co workers over and have nice brunch and some shower games. Well I was told that is tacky I already have kids and it is just being greedy. Well my registry is very simple because I have alot of things from my last baby so its not like I am saying buy me this or gimmy gimmy gimmy. I just want my pregnancy celebrated and it is my last I will not be having anymore babies so why not celebrate with people I love. Do you guys my Yahoo friends think I should do this shower for myself or should I just let it go.

My co worker is very spooked she had a dream that she was in her car and someone she could not see came behind her and shot her in the back of the head and she died. She could not see the person but could tell it was a man. And she said OMG then dies. She wants to know if anyone knows what this means.

I just had my third child and I am over weight and it does not bother me because I am what you call medically over weight but Iove my big breast, big rear end, and sexy thighs, but my stomach is my problem area. My first child was so big 10 plus pounds and she really did some damage on my stomach muscles and the skin never snapped back.

Is there any thing I can do to get rid of that extra skin that wont require surgery.

I am 30 years old today and I have not seen my father in 16 years. The last place I saw him was in Philadelphia and we had a rocky break.

In 1977 the year I was born my father was in prison and my mom would take me to see him but when she remarried that relationship ended and I did not see him again until I was 13.

My mom does not support my search so I don't have his date of birth or ss# thing that would make it easy this is all the information I have please help.

His name is Angel Nieves a very common name.

He is about 51-52 years old

He is a very handsome Puerto Rican man who I think was born in Puerto Rico but lived in New York.

He has brothers and sisters but I think one of his sisters name is Awilda.

Very important we use to call him Papo and he looks just like Al Pichino in Carlito's Way the movie.

I need to find him I don't want anything from him but to my knowledge I am his only child and I have 3 beautiful children and a wonderful husband and I want

I am searching for my father and have little info please help.

In 1977 my father went to jail the year I was born. My mom would take me to see him but when she remarried I never saw him again. I don't remember these meetings. Then when I was 13 going on 14 my father came out and was in my life for a year it was great in the beginnig but turned south quickly. He just had a different plan and I did not want to follow being a teenager.

I am now going on 30 July 18th and I need for him to know I am okay and I want to know if he is okay. I have children who ask for him. My husband does not support my search saying he does not want me hurt if he rejects me but I am not looking for anything I just want to know if he is okay because a family memeber told me he died. So they heard.

His name is Angel Nieves, I know he has brothers and sisters but I only know one of their names his sister is Awilda. His family is in New York. He is about 51 or 52 years old. I was born during