Heidi Anne

I watched the Dr. Phil show today called "bullied to death". When they showed the kids who bullied Prince Prince, they put up the charges that the kids were facing. The 2 first boys they showed said they were facing charges of statutory rape. There was never anything said about rape on the show. Did this girl who was bullied also get raped by these boys?

I don't want scams. Either online jobs or things I can do from home. I have severe depression and social anxiety so I need something flexible. I really love animals so something to do with that or maybe reading would be good.

I just moved into my boyfriends house, he had shared this house with one other serious girlfriend. Im not too thrilled about that, but I have been kinda putting it into the back of my mind, until yesterday. I decided to wash the sheets since I hadn't done it since I moved in. Once I got the mattress pad off I could see old "love stains" on the side of the bed where I sleep. Obviously I know he had sex with his ex's, because I had sex with my ex's too. (again im not thrilled about it but oh well I cant do much) It just really made me sick and sad and made me feel bad to see all those old stains and they were all on my side of the bed, so im guessing that im sleeping on what used to be her side too. I just cant stop thinking about this now. I was able to put it in the back of my mind but cant anymore after I saw all those stains. I honestly dont even want to sleep in that bed....at all. (I mean I would at LEAST buy new sheets before I even let my boyfriend sleep in a bed that I shared with an ex..but I would wanna buy a whole new bed.) My boyfriend and I will be getting engaged soon, and then obviously married, I dont wanna start our new life making love and sleeping on his past. I am willing to buy new sheets and mattress/bed too, I mean I dont just expect him to buy it all. Am I overreacting? Please, I love this man with all my heart but this is really bothering me. I would like some of your opinions.

And yes, I know the bed is just an object and Im sure they shared a lot more things around the house together, but the bed is just important to me since its where we make love the most, and obviously we sleep there together every night.

Well my new boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 months now, but we are very close and know almost everything about each other already. Last week his grandma died, and I helped to comfort him through that and things were getting back to normal. Almost exactly one week later (Wednesday night) his parents got into a horrible car accident and both might not survive. My boyfriend is an EMT and works with an ambulance service and he was one of the people that responded to his own parents accident. I can't even imagine how had that was.

So he's in the hospital with them, and told me that he needs some time away from me. I mean I understand that, this is a big tough thing hes going through, but do you think this is a temporary thing? Or are we broken up for good? I can't really talk to him about this right now, he has way more important things going on. I feel really horrible because I want to be there for him and help him, but he doesn't want me there and I take things like that personally. I just want other peoples opinions. Guys, would you want that too? Girls what would you do?

I have left him alone, but I text him once a day to ask how he, and his parents are, and to tell him that if he ever needs anything I am here. What can I do?! This is really hard for me to deal with because I hate that such a wonderful guy has to go through this, and he doesn't even want me there to help him.

Well my new boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 months now, but we are very close and know almost everything about each other already. Last week his grandma died, and I helped to comfort him through that and things were getting back to normal. Almost exactly one week later (Wednesday night) his parents got into a horrible car accident and both might not survive. My boyfriend is an EMT and works with an ambulance service and he was one of the people that responded to his own parents accident. I can't even imagine how had that was.

So he's in the hospital with them, and told me that he needs some time away from me. I mean I understand that, this is a big tough thing hes going through, but do you think this is a temporary thing? Or are we broken up for good? I can't really talk to him about this right now, he has way more important things going on. I feel really horrible because I want to be there for him and help him, but he doesn't want me there and I take things like that personally. I just want other peoples opinions. Guys, would you want that too? Girls what would you do?

I have left him alone, but I text him once a day to ask how he, and his parents are, and to tell him that if he ever needs anything I am here. What can I do?! This is really hard for me to deal with because I hate that such a wonderful guy has to go through this, and he doesn't even want me there to help him.

So last night my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time (no we arent virgins, we just started dating and he is 21 and I am 20 and YES I am on birth control lol) Anyway I havent had sex with anyone in a long time and I am also really tight (sorry tmi) and he is pretty big. I am really really sore today, it hurts to sit and it feels like I have bad cramps I am also bleeding a little. Did we just do it too hard? (we used lots of lube and stuff) Anything I can do to feel a little better? I havent had to deal with this before since the other guys I were with were small lol

Ok so I have 4 cats, I have had them ranging from 2 years to 5 years. So they arent new to me. This morning I found that one of the cats had peed on a pair of my pajama pants that were lying on the floor. NONE of my cats have EVER gone outside their potty box. I havent changed litter brands, and I still clean their litter boxes everyday. I havent noticed any change when I clean their boxes either, its still the same amount I scoop out and everything. I havent changed their food or water or whatever. I have been gone from my house a lot more, but its been that way for over a month and this just happened today. I also havent noticed any different behavior in any of my cats. I am just really worried that one is sick! I have NO money to take them to the vet...what should I do?! Is there anything I should be looking for?

I was in a car accident on Tuesday the 7th. I was going through a green light and this kid ran a red light and T-boned my car. He had a huge truck and I have a taurus. Since my car isn't worth much, its totalled but its drivable. Once we hit in the intersection I did a 360 and pulled over and so did the kid. It was a kid driving with his dad, the kid was 18 but only had his permit. The first thing the dad asked me was "should we call the cops?"...um..YEAH! dumbass They told me that they had a green but I know that I did. I had gotten in an accident 4 years ago and since then I have driven super safe and i pay attention, I was not at fault. But since no witnesses stopped its my word against his. When the cop got there he took the dads statement and when I went to give mine I asked him if the dad said he was driving and the cop informed me that the dad DID say he was driving, but I let the cop know that the kid was driving so he had to do everything over again, the cop was (needless to say) pissed off. So the dude lied to the cop and filled out a statement/police report lieing the whole time! I went to my insurance RIGHT after I got done with the cop and I was the first to get to my insurance. I talked to both insurance agencies. I also have some bruises from the accident that I have taken pictures of just big black and blue marks. And the guys insurance already asked me if I could sit down with them to talk about my "pain and suffering" Am I gonna win this or not? What do you think is gonna happen I am nervous about this because it was NOT my fault! I mean they lied to the cop..why would they lie unless they were hiding something or trying to cover their ***?!

I have a scar on my chest it was from a pimple/ingrown hair. I have had the scar for about 6 months or more. It's about the size of half a dime. It shows when I wear a lot of different kinds of shirts and I would like it to go away or just even fade a little. And yes I have tried makeup but it draws more attention to it. Blah! Please help!

Alright well I am buying a cheap car and I know it wont have a CD player in it so I was thinking of buying a fairly cheap MP3 player so that I can use it in the car, like one that plugs into the lighter thing..any such thing? lol Any examples like models and such?

I worked with a company online but I did not have any taxes taken out of my paychecks. I only made 695.00 in all of 2008. I owe 98.00 I filed taxes on a free tax site from the IRS website..but what now? How do I send my money? Are they going to mail me something? I dont know what to do

I have had my period for 9 years so its nothing new to me, but this one seems to be bothering me more than usual. I am on a BC pill and I just got to the inactive pills, I will start active ones on Tuesday, so I am at the beginning of my period. I am also under a lot of stress right now as I am starting college, getting a new job, finding my own place, and getting out of a 3 year relationship. So maybe this is why this period is bothering me so bad, but I am having bad cramps and they are also starting to become stomach cramps, I feel WAY fat, I don't know if I gained weight or I am just that bloated. I am also very nauseous and tired all the time. Got anything that makes you feel better when you have your period or these symptoms? Thanks

Someone has offered to give me their motorola slider phone (about 250 bucks) But I wanna get boost mobile service..is that compatible?

Ok, so I am 20 years old and have been supported by my fiance for the past 3 years..So I have no money, no car, nothing. My fiance and I just broke up and I have until June 15th to get out of here. That means finding a job and saving up enough to leave and live on my own and I am taking college classes right now as well. Is there any kind of help that I can get to help me get on my feet? I will be working and such but is there any other help to get me started? I am in Minnesota.

Ok, so I am 20 years old and have been supported by my fiance for the past 3 years..So I have no money, no car, nothing. My fiance and I just broke up and I have until June 15th to get out of here. That means finding a job and saving up enough to leave and live on my own and I am taking college classes right now as well. Is there any kind of help that I can get to help me get on my feet? I am in Minnesota.

Ok so I asked about how I can make my bangs look good when I get up in the morning because I like to shower at night. Well I shower, then I straighten my bangs. When I get up in the morning they look like they are all over the place and stuff, and if I re-wet my bangs and/or try to restraighten them they look ok for like an hour but then look greasy for the rest of the day! :(

So girls after you have an orgasm, do you get pulses that run all down your legs all the way to your toes and it feels tingly? I dont mean while you are having an orgasm I mean for like 5 to 10 minutes afterwards. Just curious lol

I like to take showers at night after my day is over, it helps me unwind, BUT when I get up in the morning my bangs are messed up and look crappy! They look so cute right after I shower and stuff but once I sleep they get messed up! How can I make my bangs look good in the morning too? (without having to shower in the morning, I dont have time for that) If you need pics of what my bangs are like you can go to my myspace. www.myspace.com/heidianne21

I have asked a couple questions about this illness I am having the past few days. I have a horrible cold and cough, sore throat, headache, earaches, all that wonderful stuff, well I was sleeping today and I woke up choking on mucus (snot) and I had to run to the bathroom and vomit. All it was, was yellow and green snot and a lot of it, about a cups worth. After I vomited I felt much better and could breathe. So that's nice, but is this serious that I vomited mucus? I can still feel stuff in my chest.

I have a really bad cold and cough right now, and constant post nasal drip. Its so bad that I have a hard time swallowing, whether it be liquid or food. It makes me feel like im choking! I am taking cold medicine constantly (as directed) and I am blowing my nose often. I can look at my throat with a flashlight at any time and you can see snot in the back of my throat (SO gross I know) and its bothering me so bad. Is there anything else I can do to help with this?