Special K

It is awful to spend money to get your car aligned only to drive on horrible city streets! I am a frequent driver of such streets and I find that money should be spent to repair, not patch and perhaps rebuild those streets that have potholes, and bumps in the rumps!

He drank casually before we were married because of the lack of funds. I was fine with that. Now that we are married, and there is more money for the alcohol, he drinks EVERYDAY! I told him that socially it's ok, but not to forget that his father was a heavy drinker, and died because of it. I warned him that it's in his genes and he should be careful. He told me that as long as his isn't slurring his words, wetting himself, or falling out, I shouldn't worry. I notice that he seems happier and content if he's drinking. I now even smell it on him, and over time, that's all I'll smell!! He doesn't just have one or two drinks, he drinks a pint, sometimes a liter each day. It really troubles me, and I refuse to live with an alcoholic. We've been married only six months-help!

My husband promised his mother that he was going to send her money which isn't a problem. The problem I'm having is that she knew she was getting money before I did! I think we should have discussed it first-isn't that what married couples do? We've been married less than six months and already others know what the plan is before I do! I don't do anything without discussing it with him FIRST. I don't give him second hand information-should I accept second hand information from him?!

It snowed today, and I had to clean off my own SUV! Why?

Long story short, my husband isn't working now, I'm the sole supporter of our family. I enjoy doing what I need to do. I work, cook, clean, laundry, sex, chauffeur (since he isn't familiar with the city). I did laundry last night, his drawer was open, he got up to close it. I told him to wait a minute and began to empty the laundry out of it. I gave him his clean laundry. He stormed and said "next time maybe I'll do the wash too!". I couldn't see him getting up to close the drawer, so I decided to give him his laundry to put in it then close it. This morning he's barely speaking to me and last night he didn't hug when we slept. I don't want to always be the one to go back and say "I'm sorry for whatever I've done to make you upset." This time I can't see where I went wrong...HELP!

I have slept with him before and I don't remember it being a problem, but now, it's horrible. I have to ask him to let me go to sleep first! Sometimes during the night it wakes me up and he also farts in his sleep.Rolling him over doesn't seem to help at all! Any remedies for these annoying actions-divorce is not an option?!

I can't stand to hear another word out of her nasal passages! Well I am sure all of that will be over when she and McCain give their concession speech next week. Enough of the both of them already!

When I was born my mother was married (separated), but because she was married, I had to have her husbands last name instead of my biological father's last name. I recently got married and her husbands name appears on my birth and marriage certificate as my father. I want to honor MY father by taking on his last name. I don't quite know what to do, but I want to do something. It's a lie to look at another man's name where it doesn't belong. I collected SS benefits from my biological father so it is recognized somewhere that he is in fact my bio father. What to do?

there would have been more of a fall-out than with Sarah Palin's daughter? If it were chronologically possible for one of their daughters to become pregnant at this stage in the campaign, you best believe there wouldn't be any separating of family and state! Who agrees?

I firmly believe that electing another republican president will be like keeping Bush in the oval office. America is in a sad state, and we do in fact need change!

My wedding is somewhat informal. It's in a backyard in October of 2008. I was thinking of a simple rehearsal snack of pizza, salad, and garlic bread stix. What do you think? The wedding menu is appetizers, deli, salads, ziti, and hot vegetable. I don't want to have a huge dinner the night before the wedding.

I was thinking about "come away with me" by Norah Jones. Wedding in a backyard venue.

Don't mean to be gross, but I know women do and I just wondered if it is the same for men. If it is, I'll pay more attention to the set on my fiance'.

from for my wedding of about 50-75? It's a small backyard wedding to be held in the fall of 2008. Any help would be appreciated-THANKS!

We are having a somewhat small backyard wedding with about 75 guests. It will be catered, what can I expect in the way of monetary gifts? I at least want to have some extra $$ to spend on our week-long honeymoon. I am getting married because I am in love, and the thought of monetary gifts just crossed my mind because we have spent a considerable amount already. Thanks

We are having a somewhat small backyard wedding with about 75 guests. It will be catered, what can I expect in the way of monetary gifts? I at least want to have some to spend on our wee-klong honeymoon. Thanks

Myrtle Beach is on the second leg of our honeymoon. Neither of us has been there. I have heard of something called a 'calabash', but besides the beach, don't know what else to do. We have an ocean front suite with a balcony!

My fiance and his family are from the south. Me and my family are from the north. We will be getting married in the north. Most of his family are unable to attend the actual ceremony so his mother wants to give us a reception in the south once we get married so her family will feel a part of the happenings. I want it to be a week after the ceremony so we won't lose an of the ambiance. What do you think, should we allow it, she loves her son and she has a fairly close family?

I'm getting married in Oct. '08, and I was asked to make a wish list. I want to make sure I list the correct things for each event.