Should I have to ask " clean off the car honey?"?

if you wanted your car cleaned you should attach s-x to that offer !

My dog doesn't really put his snout all over the windows. But when I help clean the car I clean the windows with glass cleaner such as windex.

Um is it your car or your significant other's? Who uses the car? Who ever is using it should have to clean it, end of story. My fiance and I each clean off our own cars... Well actually now we work together so we both clean off only one car in the morning to drive to work in and then the other later. Still though we split the work evenly as it should be.

I guess the honeymoon's over, or he's mad at you. when my bf leaves my apt he clears the snow off my car ;) but we don't live together so it's not like he does it every time it snows. and I always thank him profusely for doing it, because it's sweet. but it's not something you should expect, if you have a sense of entitlement about someone doing you a favor, they're less likely to want to do it.

wouldn't it be nice? lol unfortunately women's lib movement decades ago really changed our lives and not always for the better.

for example women no longer 'exude' feminity and helplessness like they did decades ago. women want equal pay, equality in all factors of their lives, they want to climb that corporate ladder alongside the men, they want to be plumbers and electricians which are traditionally men's jobs. we want the right to go be on the front line with the men in war. sadly all this has culminated in the fact that we aren't really considered to be the weaker sex any more.

no longer are doors automatically opened for us by the men, no longer do men offer you their seat on the bus, or offer to carry our bags.

before everyone starts giving me thumbs down i realize some men still do and yes i realize some women aren't appreciative of it when you do offer assistance but it all comes down to

"yes you have to clean the snow off your own suv"

welcome to the real world sweetie! its not always fun!

If you want to drive it, you should be willing to clean it off. If you're not going anywhere, just forget it and wait til the snow melts.

If you want something done by someone other than yourself, you ask-and you ask politely. You don't expect or demand anyone else do anything for you-especially without you even asking. When you think like that, you set yourself up to be disappointed rather than excited when someone does something extra for you.

Just because you are in a relationship, it doesn't make your significant other your servant or slave.

BTW, it is your own car, and since you have use of your arms and legs (I am assuming), do it yourself.

Because you have two hands. He is your husband not your servant. Maybe he wanted you to clean off his vehicle.

Are you for real? It's your vehicle so you are fully responsible for it. It isn't anyone else's job or obligation to be your personal slave just because you are too lazy.