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I asked this already but no one answered. PLEASE help.

Well im 14 and well I want to buy my best guy friend a Video game for his birthday. But as i said im 14 so i don't have that much money on me ( i don't get an allowance) so the game I want to buy is new and $59.99. well i have $37 dollars that i have saved up and well i would need 22 some more dollars so i made a deal with my mom to do chores for a whole month (just me) if she would give me $30 so i can get a card or something. But i really didn't tell her it was just for my guy friend because she would probably think that 60 for just one person is a lot and we don't really have much money. But still he is my BEST FRIEND like im not as close to some of my girl friends as i am to him( and no we are not dating or anything)

So do you think that it would be fine to buy him a 60 dollar present?

Also im thinking of buying Dead Island or Deus Ex:Human Revolution could i buy it by myself or would my parents have to come with me or something since im 14? ( sorry im sorta stupid on buying video games:) )

Or something else that could be a great birthday present if u think its too much? He likes vid games obviously, soccer,music, plays the flute just to name a few things.

Well im 14 and well I want to buy my best guy friend a Video game for his birthday. But as i said im 14 so i don't have that much money on me ( i don't get an allowance) so the game I want to buy is new and $59.99. well i have $37 dollars that i have saved up and well i would need 22 some more dollars so i made a deal with my mom to do chores for a whole month (just me) if she would give me $30 so i can get a card or something. But i really didn't tell her it was just for my guy friend because she would probably think that 60 for just one person is a lot and we don't really have much money. But still he is my BEST FRIEND like im not as close to some of my girl friends as i am to him( and no we are not dating or anything)

So do you think that it would be fine to buy him a 60 dollar present?

Also im thinking of buying Dead Island or Deus Ex:Human Revolution could i buy it by myself or would my parents have to come with me or something since im 14? ( sorry im sorta stupid on buying video games:) )

Or something else that could be a great birthday present if u think its too much? He likes vid games obviously, soccer,music, plays the flute just to name a few things.

I want to get my best guy friend a good action game that he may actually like for his birthday. He likes black ops and halo reach and that sort of games. I was wondering if there were any games that were fairly similar in comparison you know with the shooting and action. Thx so much

oh n price doent really matter but if it could be fairly not over $50 i would appreciate it but if there is a really good game that is over 50 please still let me know.

I would like them to be games either for a wii or xbox please

THANK YOU IN ADVANCE

I dont want to be shallow or sound shallow. But there is this boy who is my ex boyfriend's best friend who likes me. I thought i liked him back but Im not really sure. I mean he is sweet he really really is and i like that it makes me feel special something that my ex barely did. BUT I dont think I like this boy 100% i mean I love the way he treats me i like his personality but his looks sort of make him not attractive to me. I mean I normally dont care about looks but this boy I do and I dont know why I do. I guess you can say I think I like him but I dont want to date him. 1) he is my exs bestfriend 2) he is sorta ugly But sweet 3) Im over my ex but its only been two weeks since we broke up ( we dated for 2 years n 4 months) and im not so sure im ready for another relationship 3) he deserves someone who loves him 100% and someone who can appreciate his sweetness and kindness, its not that i don't but I could date a boy who barely did anything to show love and not a boy who can!? I dont think its fair...

Well i thought i liked him so on sat when we finished texting i told him i luv u ( i know i made a big mistake leading him on like that when i wasnt sure of my feelings :() well yesterday he asked if i really did love him n I answered yes but as a friend, cuz i didnt think i liked him then like i didnt want him to ask me out! But i felt bad cuz i feel like i used him which was NEVER my intention I am not like that! I apologized and he said that it was ok that he would never hold a gridge against me n that it was him who should be sorry and I told him that it was not his fault that it was mine that I was soo confused at the moment and that when my head was clear I would explain everything! ( idk wat i meant by everything!!!) he said that it was ok n that i shouldnt beat myself up n to do it for him and he said that he loved me! well that made me feel worse!! I am not used to a boy being soo sweet to me! i think i like him but then at the next moment I think I don't! I am soo confused I feel terrible I have been crying cuz i REALLY REALLY didnt want to hurt and that's exatly wat i did i Really REALLY dont want to hurt him even more.

I cant make him wait until i clear my head cuz that may get his hopes up N if i eventually dont end up liking him well he'll get more hurt and I really dont want that!

If u dont think i should date him plz tell me how i should let him down easy so he wont get hurt cuz that is what i want to avoid. I dont want him to be hurt because of stupid me cuz he deserves way better than a girl who cant acept his feelings completly for some shallow reasons and for mixed feelings.... Plz help me I am a mess :'(

sorry for it being so long n I do know how to spell but I was rushing so I really did not put much thought to that.

THANK YOU IN ADVANCE

SORRY FOR THE NOVEL BUT PLEASE READ. I REALLY REALLY REALLY NEED HELP ANY ADVICE COULD SAVE ME A LOT PLZ. HOWEVER IF YOU DON'T WANT TO READ IT ALL PLEASEEE GO TO THE QUESTIONS AT THE BOTTOM.

Thanks in advance

ok well my exs best friend likes me. my ex n I broke up two week ago after dating for 2 years and 4 months.well so my exs best friend had told me he likes me while I was still dating my ex almost two months b4 we broke up.well at that time I was still dating my ex so I told him it was sweet but that I didn't return his feelings. Its been two weeks since the break up. I'm OVER my ex.well but his friend has been really sweet with me he has always been like that to me, he is really sweet. since tuesday i thought liked him but so sat i was texting him n well then i told him I luv u but i sorta meant it as a friendly gesture cuz i would usually say that to my friends. im not sure if i like him. i mean i thought i did but im not sure. well today he asked if i really did love him answered yes but like a friend but then i felt bad cuz i feel like i used him. Although that was NEVER my intention I am not like that. I apologized after wards I told him how im really confused how i felt terrible for not returning his feeling n he said it was ok that he would never hold a grudge against me and that he loved me!well that made me feel worse! i hav been crying cuz i don't know wat to do i mean at one moment i think I like him at the other i don't!! after the break up with my ex I wanted a month free of "boy trouble" but somehow I have managed to get more than i usually get.well I thought I like him he is REALLY REALLY sweet. he makes me feel special. my ex never throughout the 2 years we dated ever told me he loved me he barely made me feel loved. but this boy does but i don't believe I like him a 100% n i don't think its fair to date him if I don't like him completely. and i don't want to rush things just in case I really never do.

1) well I sorta made myself not feel anything towards him cuz he is my ex best friend an I don't think I would

like my ex to date one of my best friends so if I don't want him to do that what right do I have to do it to him?

2) sometimes I feel like I like him but other days I don't, I think that its cuz well he really isn't that attractive but he surely is sweet.I don't want to be shallow but I don't know I think that sorta makes me not like him much but at the same time I do!!!

3) I don't think I like him 100% n I don't think its fair to date him if I don't like him 100%

I don't really think I deserve him he deserves someone better than me someone who can return and appreciated his feelings it isn't that I don't but I could I accept the feelings of my ex who well never told me a single love word n not of the boy who does!

I told him that right now was so confused n that when my mind was cleared I would explain everything ( but what is everything!?) n that I was sorry n he said that it was ok but to please not beat myself up bcuz of it n to do it for him...

n i don't want him to wait until my head is all cleared cuz that may get his hopes up n if I don't end up liking him he might get more hurt than now n I really really don't wanna hurt him!

what should I do?!

if u don't believe I should date him how should I let him down easy so I don't hurt him!?

I REALLY REALLY don't want to hurt him!

Oh and sorry I do know how to spell but I was rushing so I really didn't put much thought to it.

Srry for it being long! just background knowledge but if u dont wanna read it all just go to the questions at the bottom plz

my boyfriend of two years broke up with me two weeks ago. I was going to do the same, but i wanted to do so in person, but well he beat me to it and we broke up through text. Well when we broke up im not going to say i wasnt sad at all cuz that would be a lie but i cant say it hurt that much! ( i wasnt like bella) Ok so im pretty much over him. but i spent two years and four months in a relationship so i wanted some free time away from "boy trouble" and crushes. Well that didnt quite go as planned! i just started school this monday and throught the summer I had really really tough stuff happen (1. I aslmost lost my mom twice to not go into details worst summer ever!) My so called boyfriend ignores me through the whole summer ok i took the sign... break up up ahead! didnt really care. but throught the summer i was texting his brother( who is my best friend even b4 i started dating his brother) and his best friend who I had become friends the previous year. ( first day of summer he tells me he likes me!) well i was dating my boyfriend at the time so i just answered that it was sweet but u get the idea. After that during summer we texted and stuff and well we became good friends and got to know each other better.( School just started again) And well recently ive started to feel really happy whenever we talk, when i see him n stuff so at first i was confused if i liked him or what?! And then one day i saw him saying hi to a girl... and geez did i get jelous!!! Then i got my answer i liked him!! >:0

So now im fighting with myself cuz i like my ex boyfriend's bestfriend! ( oh n my ex n i are friends not enemies or anything like that)

I think its wrong cuz Im not sure i would like my ex to date one of my bestfriends so if i wouldnt want him to what right do I have to do it to him?!

But on the other hand im really sure i like his bestfriend!

And i know his bestfriend likes me back which makes things harder!

Also what if my ex thinks i would like to date his bestfriend just to make him jelous and get him back?( which is NOT the case!!!)

Plz tell me what should i do?!

should i date him or not??

My head is a mess!!

im 5'1 ( I know im short) i have 22 inch thighs at the biggest part. Im pretty active but just in case im dancing for and hour with zumba. I know u cant spot reduce so im not saying i want to lose weight just on my thighs but i have a fairly small stomach i believe it 30 inches around on my belly bottom( or is that fat)?

so are 22 inch thighs fat?

and is a 30 inch stomach around ur belly bottom fat?

also any tips on toning would be appreciated! :)

thanks

Ok ,so my boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years now. im 14 he is 13. Okay so as i said we have been dating for two years and we hug and hold hand once in while and hang out. But, we havent kissed at all! All my friends have already had their first kiss. Its not like i want to be like them but it annoys me that they keep repeating the fact that we have been dating for two years and that we should have already kissed. My boyfriend is really respectful, so are his two brothers, their mom has taught them to be like that. In fact my best friend was dating my boyfriend's twin brother but broke up with him cuz he wouldnt kiss her when they were both 12 i believe. So my point is that he is really respectful he holds my hand when i allow him and hugs me whenever i allow it as well. He is really sweet and stuff so i really dont care much about the kiss part but all my friends have got me thinking about it and wondering if there is something wrong in our relationship! Please give a comment, or advice.

Thx in advance

how much do u think a 5'0 14 year old girl weigh??????

i want YOUR opinion.

like not a stick but not fat.

jean size what do u think maybe?

ONCE again i just want YOUR personal opinion please.

tank you

I joined karate for three reasons 1:school 2:to stay fit and 3: it seemed fun.Well i started karate last March 3 i know that i really havent had much time in karate. OK so thing is that I wanted to start karate cuz i needed some for an honor's class i was invited to join. So i got my parents to join me in a karate class. Well turns out i wasnt one of the three people chosen to join the honors club and well now i still receive karate classes. Well im a 14 year old girl. Dont get me wrong i knew karate was not going to be an easy thing to learn. I have managed to get 2 sets of stripesand i need one more to move up a belt, so i dont totally suck at it. Problem is that it is the neighboring town from where i live( takes 10 -7 minutes to get there) so i the kids there dont go to my school. They are nice and stuff but i still dont know them. Reason why i want to quit is the not having any friends to look foward to see in class and because i usually dont want to go to class which has to do with the fact i get kinda lazy i guess. class is from ( 7:30 - 9:00pm) my parents pay money for me to go and well u can say that it is like a waste of money. However whenever i go to class i have fun but then the next day in proccession i dont want to go! i like it but i dont!

Plz anyone! Also people who have some time in karate plz help me decide if i should keep going.Or anyone in fact.

Srry if its too long!! Thing is that my friend was having doubts about if her crush liked her and stuff and how there are better people he could date that werent her. So I started telling her how I had liked (lets call him Patrick) since third grade and how i didnt have him in 4 or 5 grade. So i told her that i had liked Patrick since third but in 4 i believed he would never go out with me. So i told her how i had tried to like someone else but still liked Patrick. So she was trying to guess who it was other than Patrick that i had liked in 4th. Ok I have every class together w/ Patrick.my friend and i were putting our stuff in our next class and she was still guessing who i had liked in 4 grade. Then she finally guessed right and i told her that yes it was..lets call him Michael. In the moment she was guessing Patrick walks in the classroom with his friends to drop his stuff too. When i told my friend that i had liked michael somewat she was like OMG! I KNEW IT WAS MICHAEL!!!!! She shouted that) All this Patrick heard.( K PATRICK IS MY BOYFRIEND)Patrick walked out although he usually waited for his twin brother and his friends. My friend hadnt known Patrick was there since she cant tell my boyfriend apart from his brother. Ok during the rest of the day he avoided my eyes and every 6 days we get to go back to gym sometimes he has to go to band during that time and sometimes he doesnt. Usually if he gets to go back to gym he will join my team at knockout ( since there is 4 hoops. But this time he didnt he went with his brother and the girl that is always following both around. Then afyer that it was time to go home so we all went to our lockers and headed out always pass his locker and i will usually stop to talk and head out together but today he walked past me to the front door( we always head out the back) i dont wana lose him i love him. Our anniversary of two years is this April 1.im 14 he is mad! I think he thinks i like Michael!! Help!!!

Should i wear my hair straight today again? ( i straightened my hair for a first time yesterday) or my natural curls?? Or should i curl it to give it a more dramatic look??

Also if you know of any cute or any hairstyles that are easy could you help me too??? ( my hair is a little past my waist and in layers if that helps)

Ohh n im 14

Thank you very much in advance

Im getting braces tomorrow morning. Im 14 and i need some cute color combinations for them.some that u might hav worn and liked or seen someone wear please give me some im getting them first thing tmw !!

Im 14 years old and im getting braces tomorrow morning!! Thing is my mom wants me to get the clear braces ( ceramic i believe ) i wouldnt mind but i have kind of heard that they stain and u shouldnt eat tomato with them which is why i dont really want them. I also wouldnt mind getting the metal ones but of i did get them i really have no idea what colors to get. What color combinations should i get that look cute?? Metal or ceramic?? if u choose veramic can u still give me a color combination plz????

I woke up pretty late today since school was closed(noon) so i have school today but sadly i couldnt get a single wink of sleep... ive made it thro school one day with just one hour of sleep but today its not even that. Worst of all i have a choir paractice after school until 4 so thats 9 hours of school and 7 of just listening ro teachers talk and talk. Im heading down to take a shower right now to wake up. But any tips on how to not collapse in the middle of class???

My birthday is tomorrow but im celebrating it this tuesday. Ok... so im turning 14 and im probably just going to have some time to hang out a home with my friends and well have some cake. Ok so my dilema is im thinking about inviting my boyfriend and his twin brother( he is also ky best friend) we have been dating for 2 years so ya but my boyfriends brother was dating my best friend (she is a girl) but they broke up last year in june they talk once in a while i mean its not like their enemies or stuff but i was thinking that if i invite her well it might revive some memmories and stuff( she was the one that broke up with him he was really sad at first but well he is over it, she is currently dating someone now) so thing is since she is ky best friend i want to share my day with her but he is also my best friend so i dont want to produce pain in him. So should i invite my boyfriend, his brother and my best friend????

i need help on what to give my boyfriend for his 12 birthday. Any ideas on what i can give him i want it to be a little detail, nothing too big just i little detail to tell him I love him and so he can see that...well i gave him a present.

PLZ help!

Thx in advance (:

Summer vacation will be starting this wednesday for me. Im a 13 year old girl 5 ft and i currently weigh 115. i want to use this summer to lose 15 - 20 pounds. I REALLY want to lose weigh and i have set my mind to do so starting this wednesday. I Know that eating healthy helps but i would like some recipes some i could try 'em and i as well need some really good exercises to lose some belly fat(to make my waist smaller) to make my arms smaller and as well as my thighs (smaller) As i said before i REALLY REALLY want to lose weight please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thx

I currently weigh 120 and i stay at that. But i really want to lose weight if u have any ideas on how i could lose 2 pounds a week that help a lot. Thx

my boyfriend has a twin brother that is my best friend's boyfriend, and my best friends boyfriend (so my boyfriend's brother) is my best friend.

PS sorry if it is confusing