meshti

I was told that it would all go away by the start of my third trimester but im 14 weeks and i still have pretty bad morning sickness. Is there hope that it will end or will i be one of those poor women that have morning sickness till the kid is born.... -_-?

So i am a really screwed up i have Post Traumatic Stress syndrome, im kinda dysfunctional, i am depressed, and self destructive. I was raped 2 years ago and have never deal ed with it till now and that is because even do i love my BF to death i tried everything to have him leave me to look for someone else. Now i have come to accept this i have told him everything i have done even telling him that shortly before i asked him to be my BF i almost married a guy just to stay away from him. All this because i think he deserves someone better. I thought when i told him all this he would leave me since we had begun talking about being together for eight months, only being put off because i went abroad. He knows everything and he has been really supportive and sweet. He is helping me through this really well and i feel like he loves me even with all my mistakes. He accepts my pain and my problems and still wants to be with me. Lately he tells me he has to go to his country because his grandparents are really sick and he wasnts to marry me. he said he doesnt ask yet because he believes there shouldn't be that much time between the proposal and the marriage. He says he wants to marry before June he says he will accept me without any change of my person that he has never loved someone as much. He said he wants to marry me and asked me if i would take a semester off and go with him to his country. I want to say yes i do but im so afraid i dont know what to do... i hate school so i fear that if i stop i will never go back i am going to be a senior next year. Dont really like what i study but my parents want a degree..... should i marry him, i dont think there is anyone else who will make me feel as loved and safe. I love him like no other... but should i marry him. I want to but its a scary decision i will never be able to go home to my parents (to live) once i marry i am an independent adult. He says he will take care of me.... i trust him should i marry him and go i want to but what is expected of me holds me back... what do you think?

Oh he says that i will finish he really wants me to finish studying or to study what i really love baking :) making cakes and cupcakes pastries

I LOVE HOW MUCH HE SUPPORTS ME!!!

the thing is that the way she dealed with is by blaming herself at first even do the only person that told knew told her it wasn't her fault. However she felt like the biggest slut and she began acting as kinda a slut. her previous boyfriend before me when ever he tried to touch her Intimately she would cry. She tried to fix that (must mention that it was a long long distance relationship) so this friend that knew also liked her and so she tried to find security and pleasure in sex with him. When she told her boyfriend that while they had broken up for 2 weeks she had been with this other guy the guy told her it was ok. He proposed and promises her an eternity told her to tell her parents. So she did,,, then he dumped her and told everyone in her home town she was a slut and was pregnant. So now she is also scar-ed by that. Now before we started dating she and i started out as mere sex i have loved her since high school and i love her now. But i think that a person never gets rape unless they do something is dumb. While i CAN probably deal with her getting rape i dint know if i can deal with what she did while she was away.

We talked and were friends with benefits for about 4 months then she went on a study abroad that was planned before we started talking again. when she left i told her not to come back pregnant and everything would be ok however as the time progressed she would constantly ask me if it really was ok. I really wont be ok cause even do i refused to be her BF till she came back i had to many emotions invested. However she did do as i said she found someone to tell about the rape about her ex and about me. She told me while she was there that she had thought about not coming back to me and staying with a guy she met. He offered her a house and i guess the ability to talk that she didn't feel she had with me. When she came back it took her a while ot tell me about the rape and about how she had handled the feelings. i am actually the third person to find out she never told anyone not even her parents or her friends.

i dont know what to do, do i leave her because she cheated even do she asked me a number of times to be her boyfriend and i said no. My feelings were invested but long distance relationships never work. Now we are together she has told me everything. I dont know i want to blame her for everything but if she didnt feel like i would understand her situation she was unable to deal with it and love me. she looked else where and found the support and she said that her wounds were healed enough to love me with her whole heart all of it. She is not a cheated she never understood why she did it now she does and she wants to be with me. She understand if i cant and she is sorry if it hurts me. She still doesnt think i am ready to hear it because i told her that if i person gets raped its their fault, but she cant be with me if she cant talk to me about her problems.

I was at work and i had to close the office... and well my boyfriend had come to see me and as i was closing the office things got steamy. Needless to say one of my co-workers walked in on us. Even do like i said i was closing the office it was past office hours. She shortly closed the door and i got decent not knowing what she had seen, even do my bf said her eyes were wide and freaked out. I have started looking for another job. I dont know if she will tell or not but i need a job. I am even considering quiting before they fire me? am i right? do you thing she will tell?

Yo le fui infiel a mi novio. Pero para entender el problema les voy a contar lo que hice y porque. Mi novio y yo nos vemos una o dos veces al año. Pero no siempre nos podemos comunicar. Entonces fue que después de tres meses sin verlo empeso a dejarme de hablar y yo no tube tiempo. En ese mes sin hablar mi papa casi se murió, yo acabe en el hospital, mi mejor amigo me dijo que ya lo canse y que busque otro amigo, y lo único que me faltaba era que el amigo a quien le confiaba todo me echara los perros cuando mas necesitaba era cariño y amistad. Yo no soy muy amigable y era la única otra persona con la cual hablaba y por no perder la única fuente de soporte le fui infiel a mi novio. A mi novio lo quiero muchísimo y por eso le conté lo que había pasado y le pregunte que si sabiendo todo el quería seguir con migo. Después de largas platicas el dice que me quiere y que quiere seguir con migo. Pero no quería que yo le contara nada a sus padres (los cuales me adoraban) ni a su abuela (la cual es la esposa de mi abuelo) porque si lo hacia iban a pensar mal de mi. Cuando las cosas empezaron a ir mas o menos mejor me tube que ir de regreso a la escuela y tres días después el de nuevo estaba enojadisimo. Esa misma noche le conto a su mama y ahora ella ni me quiere ver en foto. Ella piensa que lo voy a volver hacer que soy una mala chica y que el debería de estar con otra chava a la cual ella quiere muchísimo. Su papa todavía no se entera porque esta de viaje y cuando el se entere mas me va a doler su enojo. Entiendo que son sus padres pero el sabia lo que iban a decir y yo no puedo mucho con el desprecio de sus padres. No tan solo eso pero se deja llevar por su enojo. Dice que me quiere que cuando me vea en el verano se quiere casar con migo pero yo no me quiero casar con el para que siempre este enojado. Entiendo que este enojado pero lo que no entiendo es porque despues de tres semanas ya que habíamos pasado lo mas difícil le dijo a su madre sabiendo lo que ella haría. No entiendo que ago... enserio me quiere oh como el dice "la venganza es dulce"

So i have had my ferret for a while and i have been thinking lately that i might let him run around my room when i am not there i think of just opening his cage so he can come and go as he pleases within my room. However when ever i take him out of his cage he always does his business in the wrong places. i have tried to train him and for a while he did it but now he wont so would letting him out be a good idea and if so what would be the best way to fix the litter problem.

thanks

whats the best way to do this i have managed to get them to poop inside the litter box and the have limited their range or area to half the cage but as soon as i take them out they poop again i'm going crazy how can i train them. first for the cage them outside the cage

help!!!

on average for two ferrets and what would i need to bring anyone know of a place?

i live in PG county MD but i could do a place in DC if need be

this is just to check that my ferrets are ok i adopted them and the person that dropped them off gave no real info so i know nothing

i got two ferrets and i have given them a bath i clean their cage however i dont remove the waste just yet but i move it to the litter box (there not trained yet and i'm trying and no i dont let it built up but i do leave some in hope that they get the idea) but what can i do about the smell? my parents are going crazy and nothing seems to help

yeah they smell good after the shower but the room doesn't so help

why arent they allowed in DC and if i live in maryland but want to take them to DC to a friends house or a festival or other stuff can i?

i got two so yeah i would love to take them out

whats your opinion on this i have to write a paper that has both sides so much appreciated

I met a guy in tango class, now i cant get him out of my mind... i went back 3 times just to see him finally i got in touch with him and we went to a class together but what worries me is that the sencond time i saw him i got i quess jealous that he danced with other people. I think mainly i was worried about him liking to dance with other people better. i know i like him but to be that jealous after meeting up with him three times is crazy. I have never been the jealouse kind even with my boyfriends. But anyways i have only seen him three times now and i dont know why i feel like this. I dont like it it hurts... what is it?

if we were to get serious could we or would it be hell? I'm a methodist.