Brothers

For some men it may take some effort to get rid of a bad habit like watching adult videos or self gratification. We are also taught to be kind to people who dont look as thin as a model. But do women expect us not to look at them if they are beautiful and dress attractively ? Should we live a life of solitude ?

If Jesus only did good and allowed people do to as they wish, is it possible that all those cruel words such as "wrath", "hell", "burning" are the words of Mathew, Mark, Luke and John or the words of the people they heard ? 

How many good parents in this world use so many cruel words to teach their children about morals ?

We can see even in the present days that some people like to use fear to discipline but I dont know if fear is the best motivator, unless people are stubborn.

Civilisations go through cycles but some prophecies about the future in some religions appear to be like a frightening script. If we dont read them we risk repeating the mistakes they've done before and getting close to destruction. If we read them we dislike suffering and that makes it hard to keep close to a book with such events.

There are some authors who categorised gods in some religions as "gods of war" although we know that God is good and forgiving and can verify that the destruction is made by people who dont want to be like God.