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Hey, my friends brother (supplies most of the income for the household) was just pulled over last night with a DUI and is being held at jail. He was arrested maybe a year or 2 ago in a different state (drug related arrest) and stayed a year in prison. I don’t know the nitty gritty of the situation, but He essentially violated probation with a dui and I’m not sure what the legalities are and was hoping someone would know. If he’s sentenced it’s going to play a big role in household financials, and also my friend missing her brother...plus he honestly had a month left of probation so it kind of figures. What to expect from a dui on probation?

Hey there, so I am a 20 year old girl home for summer break from college. My first ever run in with any type of trouble was a couple weeks ago where I was caught shoplifting a shirt and wasn’t arrested. I did however receive a Civil Demand letter in the mail which was expected and something I was beating myself up for.

How my dad handled it was 1. Grounding me until summer is over (my 21st birthday is in July)

2. Signing me up for a gym membership saying I am too obese (5’1 110lbs)

3. Taking away any normal freedoms (bike riding ect)

4. Only allowing me to leave the house for a new summer job

5. Argued kicking me out of the house and cutting off his help will my tuition

Is this tough love or is this too much for a 20 year old is my question bc it is breaking my heart to see him so upset w me

Okay, so there's this boy I've liked for months and months. We used to talk durring the summer and even dated for a couple of weeks, but then he completely blew me off and didn't talk to me for a couple months.

We talk every once and a while now, but I still like him tons even though I haven't seen him for months. I don't know if that's a weird thing but it affected my relationships negatively because of a boy that was only apart of my life for such a short period if time. He doesn't really know i still like him though so its not like as creepy as it sounds haha.

Anyway, I saw him for the first time yesterday and let me tell you I almost peed my pants and for an hour or so we sat in his room and talked and it was literally perfecto. He texted me right afterwards and said that he was sorry for wasting an hour of his time and that I could come over whenever I wanted, and tried to make plans with me today. But I texted him and asked if he still wanted to hang but he never responded.

I mean I guess I just feel he could've made something up like "oh hey yeah not today I'm fishing" or I don't know but I just feel really sad and kinda confused and any words of wisdom would kinda help

Alright so I'm kindof facing some boy struggles.

I'm 16 years old and I haven't had some of the best boyfriends. Actually for the most part, I haven't had boyfriends, just like hookups and stuff along those lines.

I'm currently dating this boy I really like who I met a couple of months ago.

Anyway, because of the past situations, I have really low expectations for my relationships, and even though I've been dating this guy for at least 2 weeks, I feel almost miserable because I have this idea he doesn't like me or he finds me boring or annoying, so I basically try to leave him alone as much as possible even though I'm dying to talk to him.

It's really odd to explain and I have major mood swings which I don't think he'd understand or find weird.

It's not all negative, and it's great spending time with him, but it's just over thinking everything is a problem.

Does this happen normally?? Should I discuss this with him??

Okay so I kinda feel like I'm back in sixth grade dealing with this but I mean I guess it's just one of those things.

So maybe a month ago I went to this local fair with some pals and met up with a friend who was with this boy I eventually became acquainted with. I could tell he really liked me and all of his friends would tell me and I never really comsidered it.

I got to know him better and started liking him alot, like a lot a lot and he would always flirt with me and we'd ride bikes together or get lunch or just something.

But on Halloween he was going to come to

a party with me and completely blew it off and didn't text me back or call me and long story short I havent heard from him since. Apparently a mutual friend of ours whom used to like me told him to completely drop me and ignore me because he thinks I talk and associate myself with a lot of guys. I then found out he hung out with other girls on Halloween and posted Facebook pictures with them on different occasions. I was really upset and definstley made a fool out of myself to the boy that told him to let me go but it's a-okay.

I messaged the boy i like twice asking him why we couldn't talk about it so i could clear everything up and he saw it but didn't respond!! Wow right??

I mean it just really sucks and it's kinda bizarre.

I don't know if this is a normal thing or what but is there anything I should do or just cry a lot and let it go

Okay so I kinda feel like I'm back in sixth grade dealing with this but I mean I guess it's just one of those things.

So maybe a month ago I went to this local fair with some pals and met up with a local friend who was with this boy I eventually became acquainted with. I could tell he really liked me and all of his friends would tell me and I never really comsidered it.

I got to know him better and started liking him alot, like a lot a lot and he would always flirt with me and we'd ride bikes together or get lunch or just something.

But on Halloween he was going to come to

a party with me and completely blew it off and didn't text me back or call me and long story short I havent heard from him since. Apparently a mutual friend of ours whom used to like me told him to completely drop me and ignore me because he thinks I talk and associate myself with a lot of guys. I then found out he hung out with other girls on Halloween and posted Facebook pictures with them on different occasions. I was really upset and definstley made a fool out of myself to the boy that told him to let me go but it's a-okay.

I messaged the boy i like twice asking him why we couldn't talk about it so i could clear everything up and he saw it but didn't respond!! Wow right??

I mean it just really sucks and it's kinda bizarre.

I don't know if this is a normal thing or what but is there anything I should do or just cry a lot and let it go

Alright so there's this guy I just went on a date with yesterday. I haven't even been talking to him that long, like maybe less than a week, but we decided to meet each other and see a movie. He definitely kissed me then tried to go for the vagina in the movie and I mean it was kinda like a ballsy thing I suppose on meeting someone for the firt time. But he's been sending me flirty texts a lot, but when I check Facebook, he posts dumb statuses saying "man when the most beautiful girl you know only dates black guys" or "I'm so over you" emotional you-need-to-get-it-together statuses.

I've been going through a lot of issues involving my ex boyfriend lately, and boys in general, and I don't know if it's a better idea just to not talk to this kid again. Any suggestions? :-((

Cause he's pretty perfect

Alright so, Im 16 and I dated this boy for around 10 months. We broke up around four months ago because durring our whole relationship he barely communicated or saw me. But over that time, he's been telling me "oh Emily I still love you and work things out" or "let's do something you rock" and will totally diss me and ignore me right afterwards, and I don't know I just noticed he deleted all of our Facebook photos together and was upset that I removed him as a Facebook friend but I don't know it's just tough and I mean I still miss him a lot so what do I do?

Alright, well, I'm a junior in highschool and there's this boy I really like. I started talking to him over summer just sparatically and after we started hanging out and biking together, I began growing feelings for the guy, which usually never happens because I always sortof settled into relationships.

Anyway, he kissed me and told me he really liked me, and basically it was the best feeling because he's perfecto.

We dated for a few days, to which he totally ignored my texts for a couple days, which I mean isn't a biggie, but girls started messaging me telling me he always blows off his girlfriends and will never speak to them again. Which basically was how it went, and I've been miserable ever since even though it was only a couple of weeks which we got aquatinted.

Okay well now were starting to talk, but he chooses to snap-chat text me over regular messaging or calling but I'm hoping he'll come around, is this even a possibility because :-(

does anyone know what the number is for getting help for suicidal teens?

i am extrememly scared and i dont know what to do or how to talk to him anymore, since this is not the first time hes come close to ending his life. ive talked him out of it several times, but im afraid that this may be the last straw for him, since his parents are considering sending him to a foster home. hes 13. so if someone could help me with words or give me the number for the suicide hotline? if there even is one. thankyou so much.

does anyone know where i can get a simple black dress that isnt tight but on the short side?

i dont know why its so hard to find black dresses. thanks!

Alright, so theres this guy. Were pretty close, I do just about everything with him. But a couple weeks

ago, he told me that he was in love with me. I told him I was to. I saw him for about 15 minuets on

Sunday night (he had to go fish with his dad, good to know right) and hes been ignoring me since.

He ignores all my texts, calls, and he wont tell me why, nor will his friends...

what do you think is going on?

Alright, so theres this guy. Were pretty close, I do just about everything with him. But a couple weeks

ago, he told me that he was in love with me. I told him I was to. I saw him for about 15 minuets on

Sunday night (he had to go fish with his dad, good to know right) and hes been ignoring me since.

He ignores all my texts, calls, and he wont tell me why, nor will his friends...

what do you think is going on?

checkmate