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Hi all. Why would a woman even do this? She just told me it's over because she still has feelings for an ex-boyfriend. I don't have any of the baggage the other guy has. I've never been divorced because I've never been married and I don't have kids. Why do women choose to have more drama and stress in their lives? Also, she said the guy has his own house too. I don't now but will soon. Any answers would be appreciated. Thanks.

Hi all. I'm just curious. Is this nature as a way for nature to help control pregnancies and the population somehow?What do you think? Thanks.

Has this ever happened to you? Did your ever see or hear from them again? Used a condom? Just curious.

Hi. I'm a single, childless guy in my mid-thirties with two college degrees. I don't see anything wrong with what society calls "prostitution." To me, dating and marriage are types of prostitution too. That's because there's an expectation of sex or something else you hope to eventually get out of it. Instead of me getting a girlfriend again and taking her out on expensive dates with no guarantee of sex, I think it's more cost effective for me to just pay a prostitute from time to time when I get the urge to want sex. I like to just get right to the point and get both my money and pleasure's worth. Most relationships and marriages will eventually end anyway. The statistics clearly say that but nobody listens. I love women but I'd rather just pay for sex instead of also putting up with the female drama and bull shitte that comes in a relationship. What do you think about it in my case wanting to pay prostitutes for sex when I want to? Thanks.

Hi all. I've been with my girlfriend for about 3 years. We live together and I'm her first boyfriend despite her being 33. She always tells me no other guys wanted to date her because of her health situation. I feel sorry for her. The truth is I love her as a friend but I'm not in love with her anymore. She has type 1 diabetes and her condition just gets in the way of not just her life but my life too. I have to take her to doctors constantly and sometimes pay lots of money for co-pays. She sometimes wants me to eat what she eats because she's diet limited. I'm always worried about her health. She talks about how she wants to marry me and have kids one day. But deep down, I don't want to marry her or have kids with her. I really want a healthy, wild woman. We're not married and don't have any kids. We haven't had sex in over a year. I'm just tired of it. We're in our early 30s. Her parents expect me to marry her. I feel like I'm missing out on a full life when I don't have to. There's many women I know who want to be with me. I'm worried that if I break up with her and kick her out of my house that she'll go into a deep depression and her family will forever hate me. But I have a life and want to be happy too. What should I do in your opinion? Stay with her or leave her? Thanks.

Hi. I met this beautiful girl and we became friends. We hooked up and had great sex a few times. We have a lot in common. She won't tell me where she lives but says she just got a new job and is renting a room with a male "friend" who she has known for a long time. She said he's paying rent too with a married couple with kids that live in the house. However, she told me that her family doesn't want her to date or be close to any guy either. When I'm around her when we meet up, she acts very secretive and sometimes looks around to see if anybody sees her or sees her with me. I was interested in seriously dating her but she told me she just wants to be friends after the all the sex we had together and I'm ok with that. She says she's too busy for a relationship. I don't know any of her family or friends but wanted to meet them. She says I'll never meet her family. Have you ever been in this situation before or know somebody that has been? Since she doesn't want to have sex with me anymore or date me, at least for now, should I just move on and forget about her? When I call her, she hardly picks up the phone. When I text her, it takes her sometimes 1 - 2 days just to respond. I like her as a lover or a friend. I'm ok with it either way but I don't like to be lied to. Do you think she's lying to me about anything? What does all this mean? If it was you in my situation, what would you do? Thanks.

Hi all. This happened to me. So, does this mean she's lost interest in me? She said she still wants to be friends. The sex was great and I actually miss it as I was hoping to have a lot more of it with her in a committed, stable, dating, long-term relationship with her. I just still think about her often and can't get her off my mind because she's my type of woman. Should I just stay friends with her, move on and just stay occasionally in contact with her to see how both our lives are going? I'm just worried another guy may come along in her life eventually and how I won't know how to emotionally cope with it and feeling rejected. She has been gradually acting more distant towards me, such as taking a day or two days just to respond back to one of my text messages. We're both single with no kids and about 30 by the way. Has this ever happened to you? What does it mean? Thanks.

Hi. I'm just curious. If the never-married and childless guy didn't want to have any kids with you, would you still date him, move in with him and eventually get married to him if he asked you to? Some people think all women naturally want babies but I don't think all women want kids. I think some women in the population only want to get married and have no kids. What do you think? Thanks.

Hi all. I don't understand the female entitlement mentality. Many women, whether they admit it or not, expect the man or the government to give them money, buy them things and take care of them. They don't even say thank you or they appreciate it often. They just take all that help for granted. Do you think this is female nature or nurture? As men in our U.S. society, have we simply just spoiled women, especially with that feminism bs crap? Women should work at a job for themselves and contribute financially in a dating relationship or marriage too. Women who can't financially take care of themselves should not even legally be able to have babies either. The government and the taxpayers are tired of paying for those overused government programs, like section 8, welfare, food stamps and cash payments to women who put themselves in their awful situation. What do you think about all this? Thanks.

Hi ladies. I'm just curious. I know a single guy who is looking for a serious relationship with a woman around his own age. He hasn't dated in years and naturally has his own concerns about getting back out there in the dating market. Here's the question. Would you date a 37 year old guy who's never been married, never had kids, is healthy and fit, has a Masters degree, has a full-time job with good money and benefits, has his own apartment but has had a vasectomy? He said he may pay to get it reversed someday if he can find the right woman to marry him who wants to have kids in their late 30s too. He thinks the vasectomy might repel some women to date him but I told him I think it should be a plus because that means unlimited lovemaking without worrying about the woman getting pregnant. What do you think? Thanks.

Hi all. This happens to me quite a bit. I think I'm a nice guy and have a lot to offer that special woman. Sometimes I'll have sex with women while hoping they'll date me afterwards but then they lost interest and tell me they just want to be friends. I don't know what it is. I'm not financially rich but I got a Bachelors degree, work full-time and am physically fit. I'm over 35, never been married and have no kids. People tell me I'll find "the one" but I've been hearing that for over 20 years and it still hasn't happened. What do you think the problem is? Any answers would be nice. Thanks.

Hi all. In this day and age, I think marriage is outdated and unnecessary. People get married and divorced all the time and then you gotta pay alimony and child support for many years. I'm almost 40, never been married, don't have any kids and I think the way to go these days is to just date occasionally, enjoy female companionship, have as much sex as you can during that time and then eventually break up and move on. To me, that's the smart way to deal with dating in the world today. It's very clear that nature doesn't want the same man and woman staying with each other all their lives but to change partners from time to time. Statistically speaking, people will eventually leave you anyway for all kinds of different reasons. This is why I think marriage is a dumb, outdated idea in today's world and it should be abolished. What do you think about that? Thanks.

Hi everybody. I met this beautiful woman and we had a lot in common. We got each other's numbers and eventually went out on a date. One thing led to another and we ended up having sex a few times. I thought we were going to date but not long after, her and I agreed to be just friends with benefits. Now, she's saying she just wants to be friends with no benefits. I hadn't dated or had sex in years and was starting to like that kind of life again. I didn't feel alone and lonely anymore and felt happy again. I respect and accept her decision. I just feel alone and lonely again. But how can I stop the pain, loneliness, anxiety, depression and hurt I'm feeling now? Thanks.

Hi. I work in a building as a student temp worker doing an internship. There's a girl there that came to me a couple of times in my room. She likes me and wanted to get to know me. We eventually went out from those two meetings. Not long after, I found out there was a camera in the room recording us and I didn't know it. My temp company boss says that was distracting my work and I can't talk to her again. My supervisor even asked me where I went with her outside of work. The girl employee was confronted by her supervisors too with a courtesy meeting about it. She said there's nothing to worry about because us talking on those two occasions really didn't affect our jobs. But my internship supervisor automatically judged me saying it distracted my work but It didn't. I like this girl and we're friends now. She wants to date me. My temp internship ends in about a month from now. My supervisor said I can't talk to her anymore and to tell her to leave my room if she comes to my room again. I want to get a full-time job there after my internship ends or in one of their other companies in their big organization. People at work talk to each other all the time. But my supervisor told me temps aren't supposed to talk to the regular workers if it doesn't concern my work. Can my supervisor tell me who I can talk to, date or hangout with after work hours or only at work? Will this affect me in the future? Or is it something small and will go away after next month? I'm worried. Thanks.

Hi all. I'm in my mid-thirties and want to move out on my own as soon as possible. I work full-time but I only make about $25k a year. I have two college degrees. I find living at home with the parents is crippling me in so many different ways. It's hard for me to date women because of the living situation with the parents. They want a man who lives on his own in his own place and I don't blame them. I'm also unhappy with my janitor job. I want to change so many areas of my life very soon. I feel like I have to obey their rules all the time. My Dad tells me it's a "phase" that I want to move out to be on my own and I'll realize there's no better place to live than at home...with them forever. I say heck no to that!!! I've always worked hard and am very independent. I pay all my bills. I feel like I'm in prison living with them. The only issue that's keeping me from moving out is money. I would like to move into a nice 1 bedroom apartment. But cheap rent in my area is no less than $700 a month. I wanted to move out over 10 years ago but I didn't make enough money even at that time to do it. I need to move on with my life and get my own place. I'll be 40 in a few years. Please help me. Do you have any advice for me? I appreciate it. Thanks.

Hi all. I'm almost 40 years old, never been married and I've never had any kids. I work full-time and I have a Bachelors degree. I would possibly like to get married one day. But all throughout my life, I've noticed the women I'm attracted to are not interested in me but the women I'm not attracted to are interested in me. Why is this the case for me? I've almost given up on dating. I feel like it's just a waste of time, energy and money. Any answers would be appreciated. Thanks.

Hi. Would you date a guy who works full-time in this housing situation if he's really nice? Or is that just that a dealbreaker for you? Would you try to help move him out eventually with you as a condition for dating you? I'm just curious. What do you think? Thanks.

Hi. It's been studied over and over again that marriage is unnatural. Men and women are just supposed to mate then move on and not stay lifetime partners. Marriage is also an outdated thing. In the past, when lifespans were shorter, people got married because they knew they would probably die within a few years anyway. Studies say that marriage is actually a bad financial investment these days, especially for men. Divorce is very expensive. Why doesn't society accept that marriage is not natural and is outdated? What do you think? Thanks.

Hi. Ok, not long ago, me and my girlfriend's sister met up by chance at a grocery store. To make a long story short, we went back to her place. Her and her sister don't get along well. They haven't since childhood. So, her and I are alone drinking beer and then she starts kissing me and feeling my penis getting bigger. Soon after, we're both naked and in bed. I asked her if she had a condom for me but she told me not to worry because she was on the Pill. She was so much hotter and sexier than my girlfriend is and I accidentally came in her doggystyle. I know I did because I saw my stuff dripping down her legs when we were done. Afterwards, we fell asleep. I got up the next day and left. I'm worried now she could be preggo and my girlfriend will find out about all this. I've seen her sister a couple of times since then but we both acted like nothing ever happened. But her sister does look like she's gained some weight since we were together. She's got a little belly now. How do I deal with this situation? And advice would be nice. Thanks.

Hi. I'm a 35 year old guy thinking about possibly getting married one day and have kids. I just need to find the right woman for me. Almost everybody I know around my age is either married, separated or divorced but they all have at least done the marriage thing. To me, as a man, I don't think it's normal to want to be with only one woman all your life, which is how society has designed marriage to be. I think it's natural for me to always seek being with a woman of my choice for female companionship but not necessarily from the same woman year after year. Society says so-called "cheating" is wrong. Well, if society still has this problem since man and woman were created, and it still does, then that should tell everybody that infidelity is nature. I'm not afraid of commitment. But if I get married and my wife decides all of a sudden she doesn't want to be with me anymore and wants to leave me for any reason, I won't let her and lawyers take assets, mainly money, away from me. I've met so many divorced people to where I've lost count of them. Do you think marriage is still expected in the U.S. today? Do you think marriage is nature or nurture? Thanks.