Cara P

I have 3 names planned for my children as my boyfriend and I are planning to have our first baby.

We have managed to come up with 2 girl names and one boy name but we cant find the middle name for him and we want something that flows well which also perhaps has a nice meaning.

Siena River Van der Drift

Beau Lily Van der Drift

Bond ?? Van der Drift

Van der Drift is my boyfriends Surname. Mine is Palmer, Do you think Bond Palmer Van der Drift works?

Ok.. so aside from my episodes of drama last year a new unexpected turn has spun my relationship into a never ending story of uncertainty.

Im not sure if this is what i deserve, but 8months ago my boyfriend of 3 years announced one morning that he questions his sexuality. He tole be he had literally woke up one morning to heart palpitations, and he started to notice that he was not so bothered about sex anymore and never noticed other women, when naturally as a man, he always did before. I trust my boyfriend and i believe that he may actually have been confused for a while but didnt know what to do or who to tell.

He woke up and told me this 8months ago, now i occasionally ask him, 'how are you feeling, how is your heart' just because i cant bring myself to ask him out right 'are you gay or not'

He told me he loves me more than ever and wishes he could spend the rest of his life with me and have a family together, but he is not sure if it will ever happen. When i ask him if he is attracted to men, he says NO and that he doesnt think of what it could even be like with one, however he is sure that something sexually in him has changed. He even asked me if i would stay with him if he did one day realise that he is indeed gay...

Now, to say the least im am extremely confused. Some days i go on without even thinking about it and others it is all that occupies my mind. Im am sure i want to be with this man, and sure he can make me happy, but for how long do i go on supporting and waiting for him to decide whether of not he his straight!?

Ho told me that his is worried that if he is gay his family and friends will treat him badly. I know he must be going through a very rough time and is probably frightened about what is happening to him, but i really think he needs to figure it out soon. Hiding the truth will only hurt him, and US a couple.

He still tells me he loves me everyday, that im beautiful and is very affectionate and will do anything for me, but he still cant tell me he is straight for sure. This time, i really do not know what on earth i am supposed to do.

Why is it that now im in a relationship and have been for more than two years, MEN cant seem to leave me alone, and more than often they are nice guys too... guys that i actually want to be friends with cos there is just something i like like about them personality wise! What is a girl to do?? I have a great relationship, and my boyfriend is quite accepting of me having male friends, but how do i stop myself from ever falling for one o these other guys??? Has not happened yet really thank God!!! Anyone else have this experience???

can i have you opinions please...

OK, so i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and since then there has always been a flock of men trying to get me away from him. Im talking like everyday i get approached by really beautiful, decent (so it seems), hard working, fun men, who if i was single id probably date. Before my relationship, i was a serial dater, like a man eater except, i didnt have sex with these guys, id just like go out on dates 4-5 times week... just because i liked the company, and i get bored of the same routine of one person too quickly.

However, one day i met my boyfriend, and it was like the world exploded leaving only the two of us left, and he was my main focus in life... we moved in together after 2months and we have been living together ever since.

Then we moved out of the country to a place where we were both foreigners, Italy, and due to the fact that im a black girl the attention from the men was at an unpresidented maximum, even more than before. The fact that i look different to them is a huge thing for them. So, while resisting the temptation from these men, i would just completely ignore them and even be a little rude to them just so i would not give them the chance to impress me, or viceversa.

After a while of being rude to men, i let a few of them in and became friends with them, on a purely platonic level... i began to feel happy and confident that this could be my way of enjoying new people without having any sexual attachments.

So, one day i met a friend of one of these friends, and at first i didnt even take note of the way he looked, i didnt care, but after a while as we got to know each other it became very apparent to me that this guy had something about him that so reminded me of my Boyfriend. That quality in the way he would look at me, the things he said, his gestures were all so similar, but yet new, fresh and exciting. I did let him know that we could only be friends, and he was very much happy with that.

After a bit of a while as we got closer, we began to desire one another, quite obviously, when i realised that he had so many endearing attributes to his personality, i should have distanced myself, but by then i was already addicted to him and his presence.. not even in a sexual way. Just the essence of him as a person.

Eventually, we had that first kiss, which shattered me into pieces, the feeling i felt, immeadiately let me know that if i carried on with this guy it could end up being a real heartbreaking story in the end.. for all of us.. but my want, my desire, and my obsession almost kept me going... However instead of meeting him just to feel that physical connection, we met and tried to see if we could keep our hands of each other and still enjoy one anothers company, and i thought we managed it perfectly.

Only, one day, he gave up, he said it was impossible for him, he told me he wanted me, that he would do anything for me, and he wanted me to leave my boyfriend and come and live with him. I must say, they were small moments of temptation. He told me that i should think of myself and the way i feel, and what i want from my life, and not to consider my boyfriend, which i started to believe.. However, i realised that thats what love is, when you love someone, you think of them everythime you make a decision, you think of there feelings, and not just your own. I knew how much i loved my boyfriend, how much i would never intentionally hurt him, but how much i already have by being selfish, ignorant, greedy and foolish. I never had sex with this other man, but i feel like the kissing and the emotional attachment were just as bad, if not worse.

My loved never changed for my boyfriend, thats why this whole thing was really confusing to me. Granted, in the period of time i was seeing this other man, i did become a little distact from him and he noticed, but i never felt like i didnt want him anymore. I believe it was just a case that i fell for someone else at the same time. I always thought it wasnt possible til now, that is has happened to me. Now a couple of months have passed, and my boyfriend and i are stronger than ever, i will never tell him what i did, not because he will leave me... itd be hard to deal with if he did, but i love him so much id fight to get him back, and id do whatever it took. The reason why i wouldnt tell him is because, it would destroy him, especially when at the time he suspected that i something was going on and i denied it. He is very sensitive and my cheating on him would be more hurtful that lying for the rest of our lives together. One day maybe when are old and married, i could come clean but until then, we have such a beautiful bond that i dont want to destroy. Still days go by when i think of this other guy, i see his eyes, i feel the depth of his kiss and i realise that in this life we have more than one possible soulmate, and he was definitely one of mine... and least i have been lucky enogh to h

I took many photos with friends last night wearing bright red lipstick! In all of them apart from one you see the red colour but one of them is very bizarre when viewing the picture on screen my lips are completely black, even tho my other friend with the same lipstick in the photo has sustained her red colour!

its very weird if anyone has a clue why it has happened id be all ears!!

LILY HAVING KEPT THAT SECRET ABOUT THE FACT THAT SHE HAD GOTTEN PREGNANT ADN HAD A BABY?? COULD IT BE COS SHE NEVER TOLD RUFUS AND ITS HIS BABY?? THATS BAD BUT HEY IT COULD HAVE BEEN WORSE AND Y WOULD CHUCH AND BART HAVE BEEN GOIN ON BOUT IT LIKE IT WAS SOME SORDID SECRET???

Hey im new in Milan.. originally from London England and iv just moved to Milan, from Paris where i was living with my french boyfriend for a year, and i recently followed him to sustain our relationship. I have no friends, desperately need to work, and Im also black.. which doesnt mean to imply that im subject to racism, but it does mean i get people gawping at me all day long! That is not my biggest issue but the fact that i have no friends and have NO social life really hits hard! im desperate for some advice from ppl in similar situations or in the same city and could give me some tips on what to do! Leaving my boyfriend however is not an option, WE are at a great point together in terms of feelings so id ruin it all.

thanks for your time.x

i cant remember much detail except that i loved it and that had a host man or woman cant remember but the detail is that is was really colourful, and the host would have these beautiful shiny small eggs, decorated all diferently then shed plant them in soil, in a pot then out the pot inside a tree then depending on what type of egg it was itd grow ito a plant... for example a jewelry plant!!! please say someone remembers this!!

from the outside.... i have also been suffering from sever nausea due to being pregnant. i dont think the two have a connection, but does anyone have any info, or has experienced this before, and should i go see a doctor?

for boys...

Ryce Dalton

Kenzo Tym

Etienne Pierre

Raf Jo

Tax Ryah

Rean Lone

For girls...

Lariah Love

Galexy Angel

Daelee Rayne Beau

Elysees Arch

Shy La

Ariane Taeo

Stae Charli

i know they are all strange, but eventually people have to change things up a bit... classic names don't give a child a unique identity...

tell me what you think honestly.. thanks for your opinions.x