Why do some women see it appropriate to dump someone when they are in a hospital all drugged up?

Just a curiosity question, Just got out of the hospital and found out my girlfriend dumped me while i was all drugged up.She had nothing to fear from me by breaking up while i was out, which i would have prefered. Just find it rude to dump someone while they are in a time of need. It actually pisses me off as i am writing this, how can you sleep at night after dumping someone who is drugged up for a week in a hospital? someone who is hooked up to monitors and such and all you can say is we are not right for each other while the days prior you say something completely different. Just really confused by it all. Just curious about some insight into this.

'Barn2006-07-23T12:41:15Z

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I am a woman and would never dump a person while they were in the hospital. An explanation after one was home would be the respectful thing to do for self and the other.

I'm sorry this happened to you; as sad as it is; let it go. Look at it as a blessing that you didn't continue on with this person. It obviously was not right, and it makes no sense to try to reconsile it or understand it. Take it as a lesson learned and move on.

Anonymous2006-07-23T19:40:18Z

I know it's rude but you should be glad to have a person like that out of your life. Try not to hold on to the anger too long, it will only hurt you more. You'll find someone worth your time

serenity07952006-07-23T19:40:48Z

i dotn knwo if i can answer this they way you want but i am sure your are better off if she has no more compassion than that be glad it is over an move on you will be ok learn from it by beign up front an honest in your next relationship

sweetnessmo2006-07-23T19:39:32Z

Sounds like a cowards way out.

Anonymous2006-07-23T19:43:12Z

I am sorry you went through that. and no one deserves being treated like crap. It is very hard to find a partner that really loves you unconditionally. Good luck to you and take it easy.

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