I am in a abusive relationship. I really love this guy and he didn't use to be this way. We have even moved to another state, to start over but I really think that was to keep me from my family. I have no where to turn. My family don't want to be bothered at all with me. What should I do? Serious replies only
Anonymous
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i have been in the same situation and let me tell you it won't change .. even if he tells you he won't do it again .. HE WILL .. if you stay .. he will tell you he is sorry HE'S NOT !!! he will tell you he loves you HE DOESN'T !!! because if a man loves someone he would never lay a hand on them THIS IS TRUE !! get OUT NOW !! go to a shelter .. of course its to keep you from your family then you can't leave so easy .. get out before you are hurt seriously .. i ended up stabbed .. for staying . almost died .. my brother saved my life
bluesie
Get the hell out and fast!
No good can come from staying in an abusive relationship. I speak from experience hon.
You need your family now more than ever. You say your family doesn't want to be bothered with you but I'm sure that's not the case. Perhaps they've felt helpless because you left state and they don't really know what to do for you or if you want help from them.
I strongly suggest you get in touch with your family, tell them what's going on and then leave. Stay with your family for a bit until you get back in your feet.
You need to talk to them .. you need to let them know you need help and you need their support.
Best of luck to you
Toxic Buddah
What you have to: get out and get help. Moving was exactly that: a chance to get you away from any support you might have had. The fact that your family has turned their backs tells me that you haev had a history of letting this guy dog you. you have to face a very ugly truth: you are a perpetual victim, and in many ways your own worst enemey. Realize that and GET HELP. Counseling for a start. Then make a plan to get out of the relatiionship and back to your family and a support system.
twiinsgirl316
Sweetie you have to get the guts to leave him first, if you family does not want anything to do with you, you start over by yourself its going to be tough at first but atleast you wont be in danger of being harmed by him anymore. I commend you for realizing something was wrong about the relationship and trying to make a better change for yourself. Sweetie just keep your head up and realize that you love you and you dont need someone as abusive as your boyfriend to love you, if he loved you he wouldent hurt you the way he does. He's broken you down I could tell by your sign on name, dont let him do this to you, you are someone with feelings. you have to gain strength and just leave him, you dont love him your scared of him and just afraid that if you leave him, no one will ever love you the way he claimed that he does after he hits you, you have to get out, you need to save your own life.
bicheeeened30
I hope that u do not have children, because that will truly be sad for them to have to sit back and watch what is going on. Is there any time that he lieaves? I would just try to leave while he is sleep or something. Run like u never ran before. I don't care if all u have is just a pair of shoes to put on your feet! Get out of there! Fast!