Just a curiousity question here, How do you tell what someones feelings are towards you? If you just met someone is their a way to find out what their feelings are towards you. If this person doesnt want things to go to fast or does the other, what do you do? Obviously takeing it slow is the option which is a definite, as either (my own opinion on their relationship so far) wants, how do you do that? Is it possible to do? Is it to early to tell with talking for weeks and meeting them and finally meeting them just blew their mind. What does a person do? How would you deal with the situation not to possibly scare the other person off? Just trying to get great or good advice to give here to pass on. Opinions or input is greatly appreciated.
Serendipity2006-09-24T16:15:18Z
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Are you interested in a woman and do not want to scare her off but would like to know if she is interested in you? The amount of time it takes for a person to develop feelings varies from individual to individual. If you are getting a vibe from her that she takes things slowly, it tells me that she likes to "digest" the whole situation and not rush into things. This may have served her wrong in the past. Keep yourself busy and keep your interest evident, however, do not overwhelm her with excitement. She may need time. Give it to her as an initial gift of your fond feelings toward her and if it is meant to be, then she will return the affection and you will not be in doubt of her feelings.
the best advice I can give you is the same advice that's been around since.... forever.
Put yourself in their shoes.... (not literally -- haha... you'd stretch them)...
Be yourself... self confidence is not only admired; but it is contagious.... think before you speak/act....don't "do" or "say" what you feel would put YOU in an awkward position...
If you do something and it doesn't go over like you expected it to... stop. If you attempt to discuss something and there is little to no response; stop.
Lastly --- pay attention to the words and actions of the person you are with.... they may not "show" or "say" (in the same manner that you would).... but their true intentions are visible... even from the heart, if you really look............