This is so stupid but, okay my husband and I are latinos... I was born in the US and he's from central america. I've always wanted to have a dinner party. We have a landscaping business, we have some clients that are a bit close to and some real estates that refer us some work to sale thier houses! So I was thinking we should have a dinner party for our big clients and for those realtors that work with us alot. You know through something fancy! Now... my husband say that our clients maybe look at us diffrently because we're latinos (well he cant speak english.) To me that sounds offensive and even though we're the ones that do thier lawns and landscaping, I feel we should get along a show them our apreciation by throwing a small party for them. What do you think!
starrrrgazer2008-04-29T23:22:12Z
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This is a great idea! I do think that keeping it more casual would be more comfortable for everyone. I understand your desire here is to have a dinner party, but, if your husband is uncomfortable with having a more formal dinner party, you might want to consider a "toned up BBQ." IOW, have a BBQ, but have outdoor tables, decorated with table cloths, nice table settings, twinkle lights hung around the yard, and other outdoor lighting that looks nice without being tacky.
Also, to make it more comfortable for everyone, have a mix of American and Latino foods. You might want to consider sending an invitation with something clever enclosed giving some English pronunciations of some of the basic Spanish words, ie, hello, good night/bye, how are you, etc. It will also encourage your husband to practice his English. Having two languages is never a bad idea!
I think it's a great idea. Call it a networking party, as someone else suggested. I don't think it should be a formal seated dinner-those can be stuffy for a group of colleagues. Make it a buffet type party and don't skimp on the drinks! Everyone will aprreciate drinks to relax.
If you are worried about the anglo-latino barrier, I suggest serving Americanized foods. Some non-latino dish you are comfortable cooking, and reasonably good at.
I think it's a great idea, maybe start out with a cocktail hour where people can meet and mingle. Call it a networking opportunity and appreciation. I think your husband is just a little insecure about his English skills.
I think its a great idea. keep it simple but nice, ( you do not want your clients to think they are paying for your lifestyle)
As far as your husband goes put yourself in his shoes my other half is Latin also I know how I feel when we go too a Mexican restaurant and everyone speaks to him in Spanish and I do not understand what they are saying