Can a person who has been separated ( kicked out of the house ) have sex with someone else without?
At 10am in the morning my spouse threw my belongings into the parking lot of my friends place while i wasn't home. I have been threatened if i didnt give my key back I cannot have the rest of my belongings.
Bottom line is: we're separating. After we've separated, can i have sex with someone else? Can they claim adultery if it was committed after the separation and use it to expedite the divorce (ground of divorce)?
Yes, I know my life is in shambles, and I have a lot to fix up on.
I agree, it's totally against the law to kick someone out without notice, there's landlord tenant acts for that, and it should apply equally even to people in a marriage.
I didnt give the key back, and i risked having my most valuable item destroyed, and held hostage. I pleaded with them not to kick me out on the phone afterwards for hours and was given the ultimatum to never be friends with that person.
Anyhow, I just came back in the house to get my stuff, to prevent my property from being damaged and taken hostage.
Im in the middle of a semester of school ( my last semester to get this business degree ) , I need my textbooks, computer, etc, to complete.
Shambles, theres no word to describe the duress im under; how can i go to school and focus on one thing when i have my home life to worry about...
It's a lot... However, sure I would like to get over this, and am just wondering the conseq of anthr relationship
Im basically marriaged to the equivalent of Stalin and Marcia Dooley. I am constantly harrassed and threatened, and my human rights have been trampled on.
These are things I would never do; I never follow people around and keep yelling at them when they aren't mutually desiring the conversation ( if you can call it that )
I never insult other people, put them down, to stroke my ego, and break the will of other people so i can exert power and control.
I never use duress, like threatening to divorce, destroy property, kick a person out....
The things they do.... i would never do... It's a true outrage...
FML
Anyhow... Sure my life is a mess, and have plenty to worry about...
Whats wrong with just getting an answer to having a relationship after ive been kicked out...
I feel so hurt and bad, so what if in 3 months I have the chance to befriend someone who provides warmth and close intimacy. I just want to know if I would be accused of being an adulterer and whether it would impact the divorce proceedings to give them any sort of advantage and cause a loss for me....
I have never committed adultery by the way, or done anything to deserve this...