marriage is good, sex life is good, but why do men have to look at porn on the internet..Would you men be ok if your wife looked at naked men all day? be honest with your answer
we do watch it together at times, but he goes on these sites every day..to be honest, i am hurt by this..i just don't understand it, i mean we went to a website to look for different moves, and we do about 85 percent of them..so i don't understand it..
I'm a Beast
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theres no 1 answer to that question
O. U. P
I have answerd this question so many time its getting redundant but o.k. why do girls feel the need to shop for the latest fashions or get there hair and nails done every darn week or how is it that a girl can tell another girl they look good or that there *** is looking nice in those jeans it simple were different and we were made to be different for a good reason everything a man does is to impress girls in order to get laid its in our D.N.A. we have testosterone which gives us a very high sex drive so we will then pursue you lady's so we can make baby's so we can defend the lady and the baby so we can then decide to support the lady and the baby because the baby's momma is putting out its seriously that simple were that simple were not as complicated as you women we need very few things to survive food water and vajayjayy.lets say there was no porn we would still be looking at the girl next door then later when we are alone using that mental picture to sleep with the girl next door this is not a bad thing its the way were made and could you imagine men not wanting sex we wouldn't do a dam thing but sit on our arses getting fat and bitching that theres nothing on T.V. worth watching not a pretty picture is it sorry for the fifth grade science and human nature lesson but come on stop complaining and be happy were so different it would really be boring if guys and girls were the same
Rick407
My theory is it's a "monkey see monkey do" instinct that men have, that women largely don't. Seeing others enjoying themselves sexually is extremely arousing for us. It's like nature is saying "see that, that's what you must do". Like it or not, men must be sexually assertive or the whole species would collapse.
Bringing arousal to a head and dealing with it at the time of our choosing resets us. It gets the monkey off our backs when you're not interested or available. But yes, it can become a distraction and an obsession. Personally, I find it too distracting and overstimulating. A kind of freak show one can't turn away from.
jimrich
I look at porn because it's fun, thrilling, interesting and MOSTLY educational. I guess I could include "natural" or genetic.
Since my wife and I both have adequate and healthy self esteem, self respect & personal security, it would not bother either of us if one or both of us looks at porn so long as it doesn't cause a problem in our love relationship -- which it doesn't.
I don't look at porn much anymore because I want to reserve my passionate feelings for my wife and have just about learned all I can from porn actions. Porn is not very good at displaying genuine love and commitment so it becomes pretty stale after one learns the "moves", etc.
If Porn bothers you, examine your own insecurities, fears and JEALOUSY because those are the REAL issues surrounding porn!
gigio
not a "single answer" type of question. could be curiosity, could be he's looking for "inspiration", could be that even though sex is great there are some things he may want to try but is afraid/embarrased to ask for, and looks for that in porn, or it could be that maybe for him the sex life is not as good. you should ask HIM if it's bothering you, he should answer that for you. If porn's your ticket, the other person was right, you guys could try to watch it together. as for the second part of your question, I personally would not like my girl to be watching porn all day