Help, where do I stand!!!!?

I have been leaving with the same woman for 5 years. In June, I caught her having a one night stand...She was drank and apologised about it saying she was sorry and won't do it again.It has been a month and I try to forget about it BUT I CAN'T. I thought we were in love and obviously, she wasn't. The trust is gone and I want out. I think she deserve to pay for what she has done. The house we live in is hers (She pays the bills and I give her money for it)........I want to know where I stand if I go!!!
Please help

Anonymous2011-08-04T21:07:51Z

next time don't move in with a girl you aren't married to, causes too many problems

these things happen, you may forgive but not forget....if you can't get over the pain I suggest you leave, bills & things are not worth your mental sanity & happiness

?!?2011-08-04T14:55:57Z

Jeremy kyle show? Jokes, if its not working then just have a convo with her to sort it all out :)

xoxoxo2011-08-04T16:01:56Z

yes leave. Find a new place since it's hers. You can't kick her out!