How to turn a guy down?

Okay, so there's this guy. He's adorably sweet and such a gentleman, but I'm just not that into him. I've known him remotely for a few years now, and I've already sort of categorized him as "friend zone." I always knew he liked me, but now he asked me to prom (in front of everyone so I couldn't say "thanks, but no thanks"), and he keeps taking me out on dates. I don't want to lead the poor guy on or make it awkward for when prom comes around. I'm fine going to prom with him and stuff, but I just simply don't have feelings for him. Any suggestions? Guys' opinions would really be helpful too. Thanks!

Anonymous2014-03-20T15:27:35Z

You must be a very kind person because you don't want to hurt his feelings. However, he may think you care about him since you've been going on dates together. Is it possible you're sending him mixed messages? Just something to consider.

If you decide to go to the prom with him, you may want to tell him you want to go as "friends"
A date to the prom is usually expensive and if he knows you truly consider him just a friend, he might want to ask a different girl to the prom.

It may be helpful to speak with a counselor at a hotline and we are here to help with any type of problem 24/7 at the Boys Town National Hotline.

Good Luck to you and take care,
SM, Counselor
Boys Town National Hotline
1-800-448-3000

whats your source?
www.yourlifeyourvoice.org

ag862014-03-20T23:53:15Z

I bet if he was rich he wouldn't be friend zoned.

Joe2014-03-20T14:33:14Z

Its not you its me. Always classic