Have you ever kept a relationship hoping that a guy would change his habits, but find out that there's not much pros to keep it going ?

I know my friend said to write a pro con sheet and see afterwards " what does these pros do for you " well along the way I realized even if s guy is cute and sometimes nice he doesn't go out of his way to compliment me , but me things , see me and it was a one sided relationship . It's my first relationship too and I'm almost 25 .

Tepee2015-12-24T22:17:54Z

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People seldom change their ways and habits. The only hope you have for him to change is to have a calm discussion about your grievances and ask if he cares enough to work hard to change things. He may alter his ways tp please you but it often happens that they revert back to their old ways. If that happens you'll know it's a lost cause. It's worth a try.

aj2015-12-24T22:25:09Z

Here's a little secret:

Men become who they will be for the rest of their life at an early age early 20's we do not change.
Women never stop changing who they are so grow out of relationships.

Find a man you love just the way he is cause he won't change much.

Waterdragon2015-12-24T22:15:49Z

if you want to change someone then you dont really like them ---- dont make lists they are childish ----- if you like someone as they are and they like you as you are thats all you need or want