Why does some men not love and trust women/?

The reason men have "Issues" with women is primarily there experiences with them.

When you consider the fact men are expected to ASK for every thing from Dates to your hand in marriage. During all this asking we tend to get turned down about 90% to 95% of the time.

Most of the time we get shot down women are respectful, and mature about the situation, BUT there are women who feel they are doing society a favor by "PUTING MEN IN THEIR PLACE" They take opprutunities to be rude , shallow and I have had personal experiences of women who make it there personal mission to break each and every heart they can. They say I have a right to be a "BIT*H".

Now I have been very fortunate to have dated some really Increadable "LADIES" and I cherish those memories, BUT I have had the misfortue of crossing the path of a few "women" and that experience has not been plesant.

Only patient with the one you care for can overcome the negitive past experience he may associate to dating women.

All I can suggest is BE a "Lady" and ask to be treated as a "Lady", and you will find he will come to understand the differance soon enough.

Oh and I suggest you read the Book SMART LOVE by Dr. Phil McGraw. if your curious about the differance between a LADY and a woman.

God Bless.

I've been asking myself this because I will never trust a guy. How and what can they do to convince me? I haven't got a clue. People can become shell shocking after awhile when it comes to trust. If someone approached me and asked me this question I would say time. I've been married 4 times and single for 3 yrs. Just be patient and give it time and I'll think you'll be fine. Your talking about a person that sounds like they need extra love.

There could two reasons to that. First they dont trust themselves Second, they are very self restricted they live in their own world,finding one women less trusted they think any women at large is like the one they met or expreinced having relationship with them.

one word control most men try to avoid it but it seems to *** with the territory you tend to get in every fiber of mens lives no freedom after marriage no sex and no freinds male or female we just sit and look at the one we are left with

he doesnt hate women he just doesnt admire u.