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Nikki asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 2 decades ago

Why is life meant to be so hard?

Why do we also have problems with life, seem like we just want to die and forget about everything that has ever happened, why is life so stressful?

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  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago
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    It goes back to Adam and Eve, they made this world hard for the rest of us. LOL

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    It is very simple, U can not have the good with out the bad, The bad stuff that happens to us is meant to teach us something will may not relize until sometime way later in our lives. A bad experiance u had as a child, may one day help another person many years down the line, they are life lessons, Don't ever think that ending your life will be better, What would be better if u were not here?

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Life is what you make it. To assume that life was meant to be hard you would also have to assume that every/or mostly everyone believes that life is hard, which isn't the case.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    If you have problems in your life, that means that you can overcome them, and it will help you become a better person when you do. Stress is just life, and life is what you make of it, so smile, you must be great if you were blessed with a "mission"

    (Yeah.. That's the way I try to see it.)

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  • 2 decades ago

    so that it would be exciting! and that we will still acknowlegde GOD as our saviour in all the problems that we have. think about this if everything seems to be easy will you still remember GOD? and do you think life would be exciting? and also life seems so hard so that if ever there will be huge problem coming to your life then diffenitely you will be able to know how to handle it well... hard life is what where you are learning a lot of things in life....

  • 2 decades ago

    You may be suffering from depression. Many people suffer for years and do not know it. Try talking to your doctor or a councilor. They can help you figure out if it is depression. You can check out this too, www.depression-guide.com. This website has a wealth of information. Check out the symptoms to see if you have some of them.

  • sometimes, life feels that way when you're young-i remember times when i was a teen, i just felt like sometimes my parents just didn't understand me-but that's what growing up is all about-you're faced with all kinds of things being thrown at you-junior high, high school, even college, not to mention friends influencing you where to go in your life.

    i think my hardest years was junior high, i was just learning who i was and what i was all about and their were so many issues to deal with-i felt like i was being bombarded by so many people and situations at that delicate time in my life, and yes, it was stressful, but, i got through it and you will too. please know you're not alone-it's just a trying event in your life and you will get through it. (and become a better person too)

  • 2 decades ago

    Because if life was so easy, it would be boring. Life makes you who you are--the good and the bad. All experiences that you come across and experience helps shape your own personal life experience. If everything was a breeze, life would be pointless.

  • 2 decades ago

    Life is not meant to be hard. Tough experiences are the hurdles that cause us to raise the bar on striving to persevere.

    (Ok...You can put away the violins away now...I'm through).

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    IT IS THIS WAY BECAUSE YOU BELIEVE THAT.I THINK IT WOULD BE A VERY GOOD IDEA FOR YOU TO START THINKING ABOUT THINGS THAT HAVE GONE WELL.YOU NEED TO BREAK THE NEGATIVE CONNECTION IN THE NURO NET OF YOUR BRAIN.EVERY TIME YOU BEGIN TO GET ANGRY OR SAD OR HOPELESS CHANGE THAT THOUGHT IMMEDIATELY TO A POSITIVE ONE THIS WILL TAKE SEVERAL ATTEMPTS BUT IF YOU KEEP DOING IT YOUR ATTITUDE WILL BEGIN TO SLOWLY CHANGE AS WILL YOUR LIFE.IT WILL HAPPEN! IT IS UP TO YOU.YOUR LEVEL OF SUCCESS IS DETERMINED BY YOUR SINCERITY AND EFFORT GOOD LUCK!

  • 2 decades ago

    Because it tries to teach you something. I know its hard but you will pull through, I promise, just stay strong and u will make it.

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