I began dating this guy who is an ex MARINE, His conversation is masculine, but mannerisms are feminine. HELP

Make sure this is a feeling that you will not keep. Otherwise you will be making him/yourself in turmoil. If you feel uncomfortable with his manner move on, all people have male and female traits you may find out he understands a female prospective more than most males.

I have been accused of the same thing. I'm also a "FORMER" Marine. Don't misjudge him. If you just try to look past some things I'm sure he will be a nice guy.

If he hates gays, he could be insecure with his sexuality. Or he could just be a guy who is in touch with his feminine side. If he is denial that he is gay and just looking for someone to help with the kid, then that could be why he is trying to meet a wife. I think you would have to judge how is in person. Does he look like he is attracted to you? Does he act like he is attracted to you? And are you attracted to him? Do you like him in spite of his femininity? That is what you should be asking yourself.

Yes you are prejuding him... how come when things come out perfect, girls get suspecious... you dont like that way he is treating you? Or is it that you dont like to be treated so nice and kind. if he says the right things, whats wrong with that?

he sounds gay to me…

that’s why he’s in the marines.