If a woman is good to my son and me, but not really what i want, does she deserve a chance?

If she's not what you want then your should end things now and not string her along.

Yes she deserves a chance because she is good to you and your son. It's not easy to find good people anymore so If I were you I'd try to give her a chance unless you know you really can't then I would tell her right away so her feeling wont get hurt another thing see what your son thinks of her too. Good luck

JoAnn

she deserves a chance yes--but the chance would be to be with a good man who wants her for who she is and for what sje has to offer..She deserves a chance at true happiness. If she is not what you want and you end up walking down the aisle with her it will never work..you'll always have the what ifs running in your head and it will end up hurting your son. Kids are wonderful and they will love anyone you love..dont let him get attached and then let her go..if you dont love her dont string her along..let her go now.

What she deserves is you telling her you have mixed emotions.

If she's wasteing her time with you if your heart just isn't in to her, she deserves to be cut loose so she has a chance to be kind and good to others.

Don't use her, ok.

No, if you already know she's not what you want, then end it now before your son gets too attached and her to your son. Don't waste her time or her emotions.

you are just as important as your son. being with her just because she likes your son is sweet but it isn't going to work in the long run and your son will just end up hurt when things get bad with you and her

As a divorced middle-aged woman, I would say, don't devote your time to that relationship if she is not what you want -- it will end up not being fair to either of you.

Don't play her like that.