please help i need advice.....situation with me and my bf i want 2 hurt him like how he hurted me?

I am sorry girl but it was disrespectful. I dont blame him for getting mad...you made him look like an *** infront of his whole family. Now they think that you are a bad person and if you love him you will have to prove yourself to him. If not find another man.

Well, you might not want to hear this, but I don't blame him for being mad at you. For you to sit in the car while he went inside with his family was just wrong. Even if you are not a people person you could have just gone in for a few minutes. That doesn't mean that you need to be in there dancing on the tables, but you could have at least made an appearance.... As you can tell, it was not only disrespectful, it was embarrassing to him in front of his family.... Now having said that, you should not go out for more pain. He is hurt and so are you. If you want to work things out with him you need to start trying now, don't wait until after your birthday, that will only cause more problems and you might lose him forever over something that you started....

Good luck... I hope the best for you too...

I don't think that he hurt you that bad for you to try something like that. I also think that instead of sending someone else to talk to him you should have went out there and talked to him. I think that ignoring his calls will just make him go find someone else because guys don't always do what you expect them to do.

Maybe you can hurt him by paying attention in school, and becoming smart enough to use proper grammar when asking your question. With this new found knowledge you can figure out how to communicate properly, and most likely will be respected more because of it. Visa vee you will not be in this debacle, and will not be forced to show your ignorance.

Why don't you two find yourselves a nice sandbox. You sound about 5 years old.

Poor Fella....find him a new woman!

By the way..."Limin" - are you Trini?

GROW UP!