Am I in Love?

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I'm so sure I am, then I have doubts, and I think it might just be fear of settling down. I've been with my girlf for one year today, and we have talked about the future, getting married and babies, etc. I love the time we spend together, and get excited about seeing her. I've even designed her an engagement ring from Ogdens (renowned jewelers in Harrogate, UK). We have a great relationship and mutual respect. We both get on well with each others family.
Maybe I am just afraid of settling down, but I want a marriage to last forever. I'm doing it once, and dont want to be another devorcee years down the line.
How do you know when you've found the right person? Are there any tests/signs/anything?!

Lady_Rachelina · Accepted Answer

I think you probably are just afraid of settling down.  You're not the only one in this boat you know.  There are loads of guys who just feel it's a bit too much.  If you know you both love each other, you should be able to discuss this with her and she will be more than glad to help you out.  It sounds like you are suited for her.  I hope it works out for you two.  Happy new year.

Shes a maniac · Answer

How does she feel?  

You might talk to a specialist to get to the root of your hesitancy about settling down.  Perhaps its just not yet the right time for you.

TM

Sierra One · Answer

You can never be sure that you have found the right person, you can only hope. That's why the song says, "Taking A Chance On Love" !!!

!?!?! · Answer

If you were in love you wouldnt have to ask.  You two may be a perfect match and everything may be perfect between you two but the love thing is either there or not.  Love is different for everyone.  You know it in your heart and soul and you know it without question.  it just exists without explination, witout needing to be justified.

1willie1 · Answer

no

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