do guys think about sex as much as i do?

I should send you my husband

My bf was like this for a while too, so i had to do some things to spice it up... i guess after 5 years it gets a little stale. Also, i recently started working out more and getting back into good shape and he is back on the same page as me again (we do it almost every day), sometimes you dont wanna accept that your man cares that much about your body, but odds are, he does, men are very visual creatures

Barring depression, excessive stress or some medical/physical disorder, men think about and desire sex all the time. They may not desire it from you, but the desire is there.

Also, unlike women, men have to be aroused to have sex. Like it or not, physical attraction counts for a lot. Just read boo boo's comments again. I totally agree with most of the other comments as well from both the male and females who have answered.

You might be acting too aggressive, many men like to be the dominant sex partner 75% or so of the time, in order to feel masculine and sexy. At least that's me. But I still like my 4-year girlfriend to initiate sex some of the time.

The more you pressure him the more he'll resent it and pull away. Sounds like it's time for some counseling. Maybe an impartial 3rd party can help you figure out how to put the 'spark' back in your marriage.

I don't think eunuchs are very common.

A lot of sexual drive is mental. It may be physical, but I imagine he is troubled by things in your relationship, such as being nagged or being under a lot of financial pressure or other stress.

If you want specific advice on ways to seduce him you should try contacting some folks who frequent this forum, via email.

Nope women think about sex more than guys and after long term relationships it does seem as if u want it all the time and they get at mad at u for it .Mabye its time to discuss this situation with him.

all men think about sex plenty they may have trouble expressing it but it is on their mind but i am with you i think about it 7 days a week and finally i quit thinking and started doing something about it so now i get sex every day my husband knows and gets some when he wants it about 2 times a week so we are both happy

Did he have any sex therapy when you took him out of the monastary? If not I should take him back and swap him for another brother.

3-4 times a week is good for me.

Hint: if you want sex, show resistance, prtend to push him away, and he will want it more.

i am a man

Unlike girls we have to be horny/excited in order to have sex. We can't just do it like a machine... well most of us.. haha