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Has anyone else had this problem?

Has anyone else had this problem?

I saw a girl that normally I would avoid like the 'plague'...I can see the drama that could happen...BUT she makes me feel so good to see her smile that I start to have an anxiety attack(Heavy breathing, sweating, shaking) REALLY BAD. It happens every time she comes around. I am doing things that are out of character for me...and to make things worse she's a lot younger(but legal!). I was told that I have an 'obsession' and that its purely chemical and will go away with time. BUT I feel so good that maybe I don't want it to go away! She knows I like her but she's involved...Has anyone got any advice. I was told to start taking Prozac or Xanax. By the way....I can't stop thinking about her..at all. Its been three months

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  • 1 decade ago
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    You don't need drugs bro. My girlfriend makes me feel that way, except for the shaking and such. I knew her for years before we started dating and I really couldn't stand her. But once we started dating, I could not stop thinking about her and became addicted to her. Some women are very alluring because of their quirky personalities, which some consider to be annoying until they get to know them. Then it becomes endearing.

  • 1 decade ago

    Man if she is a lot younger than you, you should stay away legal or not. As far as the feelings you have for her remember the head aches of being with a girl at that age. Now go hit on her mom or at least her older sister.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You kinda sound like a stalker/serial killer.Avoid this woman and seek professional help.You say she's "a lot younger,but legal",that adds to the image of a possible previous child molester.You never did say the age difference,but that doesn't matter,it seems quite a distant separation.Avoid her why? Out of your league or because she frightens you?

  • 1 decade ago

    Hey BOY!!! you are in LOVE!!!. But i have the same experience with yours. I am still courting her right now and also having sex obsession with her. But not always because i really love her. If i were you... Just try to court her until she feel in love with you. Sometimes obsession is to bad. Dont try to think about that you are obsess to her. Jsut love her.

    Give her the real love boy

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  • 1 decade ago

    sounds like youre in love

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    That's called love at first sight my friend!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    three months is nothing, dont take any drugs, maybe she will break up with the guy soon. enjoy.

  • 1 decade ago

    sounds like you are in love. i wouldn't start medication. all you can do is be her friend and wait for her to become uninvolved. as far as your urges go - masturbate.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think you love her .I never use the term love unless it is serious and i think this is serious.

  • 1 decade ago

    well homie it sounds as if your deeply in love

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