men always want to see the future, but refused to see the present why.?

True........ i agree with you .... maybe because we hope we can do better next time.

Not a very easy question to answer. I personally know that a lot of guys refuse to look past the present, i.e. they are not planning for the future and instead party all the time. Its probably not a good idea to generalize an entire people, especially when they make up half the world.

If you are really looking for help or guidance, you may want to include a complete situation and then your question, otherwise it is difficult to really help you or challenge your thinking. Hopefully this situation, whatever it is, resolves itself.

I think you are wrong, generally men are not that smart, clever and shrewd from my experience i am speaking.

Yes, they are planned in making money, and today many men are career oriented. speaking on that angle, i agree.

But most men fail while choosing their life partner. They go in for beauty and attraction to feel proud before the society and easy mingling with the society but ultimately the marriages of today end up in divorces, not every marriages but level of divorces are on the rise, if you dig in for the cause the issues will be trivial. It is disgrace to say, but today woman are generally the cause for the cultural damage in the nation.

All we have to learn from the west is to work towards education and academic achievements and environmental clean and green and not their culture.

But today India is facing a highly dangerous situation, there is no security between relationship.

The only last resource to shelter after all forms of defeat is the family but unfortunately we are missing that today.

We are running a race after monetary power, behind foreign countries and behind beautiful ladies and glamour, which is an unhealthy trend.

Maybe they don't want to see the present, because they are not happy in it, whereas the future is a hope of changing things.

Consider it a blessing for them. If you don't plan, how will you get to where you want to be?

wha...sorry. I was thinking about tomorrow. What did you say?

Please explain your question a little more.

huh???