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what do you do when you feel your boyfriend is trying to avoid you?

My boyfriend texted me saying his grandmother was ill and I haven't heard from him in the last 2 days. I hate to think that it was a lie but my mind is going crazy wondering why he hasn't called me.

Update:

I tried calling, texting and even left a message saying that I'm here for him but haven't heard back.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    baby girl, give him the benefit of a doubt. trust that he'll do right by you. but if your hunch is true, then just set him free.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    mayb hes not avoiding you. maybe itz true that his grandma is ill. wen one of ur family member gets ill or somthing like that of course you will be sad even people that hate their own family will still be sad and doesnt feel like talkin to anyone. just give him a few more days and try to kall him and talk to him to see if hes ok.

    but if hes lieing bout it then just move on forget it. break up with him. cuz that kind of guy shouldnt be worth the trust.

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    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Lack of trust as you are exhibiting, is a sign you two aren't a well matched couple...why be with someone you think lies to you?

  • 1 decade ago

    Sounds to me like he's wanting a little space. Give it to him. If he wanted to break up I'm sure he would have done so.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe she did die. check the paper and online to see if he's telling the truth. or just ask him to please call you(text him or leave him avcml). just say you are worried and wanted to hear his voice to know that everything is ok, please call me. when you do talk to him ask him for the funeral information because you/your mom wants to send flowers to the funeral home. that way you can for sure know if he's telling the truth. good luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Call him or text him...

  • 1 decade ago

    find a new boy friend. plane and simple

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