I need help with this clown...?

Just plan going someplace with him and don't give him the option to back out or make any decisions.

talk to him about it and if he likes u then he would understand. He's probably not ready or is afraid. Give him time cuz a month is short but if he still doesn't then ask him again and tell him how u feel. Or ask him to go sumwhere where he likes to go or a place where u guys can have fun so he would want to go. Make it seem like u guys r hanging out then on a date so he will know how much fun a date would be if he asked u out.

Good luck!=)

you need to have a straight up conversation with him. sit him down, look him in the eye. ask him if he's embarassed of you or something. of course he'll say no, but it'll put things in perspective of how you're feeling. after he says no, ask then why won't he take you out? tell him to be a real couple you need to go out and spend time together alone. also, mention that you don't have to do something like the movies, you could just go to the mall and walk around (just in case money is an issue, suggesting low cost fun is a good idea without killing his machoness). good luck!

Okay, this one sounds tricky... I would sit him down alone and talk to him about it let him know that there's more to dating than saying you are. Let him know the effort he's putting forth isn't enough, tell him he needs to care about what you want too. Honestly if he still doesn't do it he isn't worth your time. I know you deserve someone to take you out on a date at least, so don't settle if this one isn't right.

ok so maybe he is shy? you never really know what guys are thinking. the'll act one way one day and the complete opposite the next. its very confusing. LOL i know all about it :P but maybe you should talk to him and ask him why he doesnt want to take you out. if he ses he does n ur never home wen he wants to say well lets go out then now. watever! if you put him on the spot he cant just make up some lame excuse.

Tell him you need to know that he is serious about this relationship, and that if something is really important to you, it should be important to him. Explain to him what your idea of a "proper date" is, and insist that he take you on one within two weeks. Tell him that if he doesn't, you'll take that to mean he isn't willing to put any effort into the relationship, and you'll start dating other people.

well this guy loves playing head games with you and the only way to do anything about it to say something like yeah one of my guy friends wants to take me out to dinner or something like it u know to make him jelouse, so here's the deal either he has no money to take you out or he doesn't want to get caught in public with you, which means there's another girl in the pic.and as far as him calling and saying that he was going to take u out but u wasn't home, he's just makin u feel bad that u left without saying anything to him. but have u actually try'd talking to him like saying {here's the thing i really want us to go out sometime soon it would mean alot to me.tell him that u would rather go out somewhere with him than anybody else.

"I need help controlling."

That's all you needed to say.

You want to control him. You don't care about his feelings. Leave him, he deserves better than you.

Oh, and by the way: That "clown" managed to play you for a decently long-lived booty call. So who's the real clown there?

Dude! So what's so great about this guy then that you can't find someone better? I don't get it.

Ha ha, my fam calls everyone "clown" lmao :D