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when say i love you to her, she doesnt reply but changes subject ????
hi i got back with my gf last week she says she loves me for the first time when i got back with her. she goes she only said "i love you" to two people one me and ther her ex who she was with for 4 years. i text my gf saying i love you and she dont reply or changes the subject why ???
26 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
It probably means shes scared.... and shy of responding, thats good sign it means she maybe loves you and it embarrassed to admit or hear it
- 1 decade ago
There could be a number of different reasons to why she doesn't respond or changes the subject. You don't say when it was when she fifnished with her last bf, or how it ended. These could be factors. We can all move onto new relationships after one ends, but sometimes we still find it difficult to forget some things. If she got hurt by him, she may find it difficult to say it back to you and this may be a bit of a sore point. She could be a bit wary of saying it. She's said it the once, so it may be best to leave it at that for now and not to push her too much.
Don't jump to conclusions just over this otherwise you may end up pushing her away, just give her time and see how things go.
- toothPASTELv 41 decade ago
yeah i guess i would take that as a back off a bit sign, i kinda got the same thing at first.
If you wanted to let her know that you did notice, you could casually point out the she didnt reply, or when she changes the subject give her a surprised face or a (= O). I wouldnt confront her too much about it, cuz thats weird, so I'd say, sure she might not be ready to say the same about you YET, but if you want to point out that yes, you did notice (theres a chance that she did that to see your response anyway) then I would do something very subtle and casual to tell her "yes I noticed that you didnt say "I love you too" and changed the subject".
Good luck = )
- 1 decade ago
Look at yourself.
You are asking a bunch of strangers when you could just ask her. Let her know how you feel. Countless relationships have been ruined by unspoken feelings.
I will, however, answer your question. From where I'm standing it looks like she's having second thoughts about whether she truly loves you or not. I know that sounds a little depressing but hey the same thing happened to me and I'm still alive and kicking, right? You'll be okay. Both of you will, so don't worry about it.
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- MonaLisaLv 41 decade ago
When someone says they love you, it doesnt always have to be followed by I love you too. You already know she loves you because she told you. Just because you wanted to say it at that particular time does not mean she has to say it back.. She loves you dude... Just tell her how you feel about her changing the subject. It may be a reason why she did that..
- flutterbyLv 51 decade ago
You just got back with her last week. Let the dust settle. She did say that she loved you when you got back together after all.You are only the second guy she has said it to so she takes saying I love you seriously. If you keep saying it to her she might feel uncomfortable and maybe doubt you take those words as seriously as she does. Don't just talk the talk - walk the walk!
- 1 decade ago
Well, if you just got back together and she said she loved you, and you know she's only said it to one other person, I would not put pressure on her to say it. If it is love it will come more easily to her over time, but then again she may not be comfortable with it. Some people don't find it necessary to say it, you'll know by her actions. If you need a partner who says it, well...............
- NickynackynooLv 61 decade ago
Maybe she's busy? Don't hassle her, you will come across as needy and clingy. Don't text her back, it's really annoying when people don't get a reply for whatever reason and keep bugging you. Just go with the flow, she will tell you when she's good and ready, maybe she prefers to tell you in person.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Well... either u souldnt tell her u love her if u guys have only been going out for a week. Only tell a girl you love her If you actually do. if she doesnt say she loves you back she probably isnt ready to say it or she doesnt love you yet. you just have to remember that you have only been going out for a week so dont get upset.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Maybe she doesn't want to get mushy on text?
Maybe she is confused because you just got back together 1 week ago, maybe she is still hurting from the break-up?
I hope all goes well with you two!
Cheers