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What would you do if the two of you had a definite "moment and then he didn't call for four days?
OK, so I haven't seen this guy in, like, 14 years, since I was 15 and he was 17. So I saw him for like, a minute when I had to go by church (his family goes to my church) and he was leaving.
He hugged me and he was like, "I don't want to say 'hi' and just...leave," but he had to go and I said to call me.
Four days later, and the punk hasn't called. Has he been living in New York City for too long? Are "moments" different there than they are around here in our dinky hometown? Is it because he was with his family over the holidays and he...gulp...forgot or something?
And don't tell me to clean my house. I've already been doing that. As well as moping, obsessing, and pouting.
I didn't want to call him if he was, like, busy doing family holiday what-not. But it's the 26th, and we were supposed to see Sweeney Todd and I'm still Depp-less. What is this guy's deal? Do I have to call him? Do I just leave it for another 14 years? GRRRRR!!!! Please advise!
I mean, "moment". You know. A "mooo-ment." I don't know where the other quote mark went. I guess I'm too worked up about not getting called in four days.
2 Answers
- Vanity AffaireLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
I'm hoping you two really connected when you knew each other 14 years ago, otherwise he might not feel as rushed to see you. It's been 14 years, that's a lot of time and a lot of things could have happened. Are you sure he's not married or involved with someone? If that's the case then a little fling you had all those years ago probably means nothing now.
But if you two really did have a relationship back then, a real close one...something that someone would remember and cherish then quite possibly he's busy with family and just visiting for the holidays, he doesn't live there anymore and probably doesn't see them very much, he's trying to spend some time with them and will make time for you if it's something he wants.
If he doesn't call either way, then don't feel too bad. People change, he might not be that same 17 year old boy you knew back then. Hold on to your memories if they were good to you and move on.
Good luck.
- 1 decade ago
he has his own life hes living and you werent in it for 14 years. if he wants to call he will call you
