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What does it mean when a man says to his GF....?

What does it mean when a man say to his GF: "I want to do something very special with you, because I don't want our relationship to be ordinary, but I want to remember very good memories about us, if someday something will happen....we don't know what the life is hiding as surprises!"

I don't know if this means that he is not taking this relationship in serious and that he wants to break up soon, or if it's the opposite!

what do you think guys?

Update:

Yes, actually he was proposing a short trip together, in 2 months...

Update 2:

Yes, I asked him and it was about a trip together...to explain to you the situation, we are living in different places, not in the same city, and we see each others only 2 or 3 times every month, sometimes more, but it's not enough

we talk everyday, many times, but...

but we both want to carry on

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  • Proto
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    It means he wants you to try something unusual and daring.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hi curious girl..I think there is no need to be so curious about what your b/f said or means. I'm sure what he means is that he wants to give you quality time and to be very romantic towards you when he says he wants to do something special with you. And that he wants these present days to become a very good memory for you both, so that it becomes a part of you even when it becomes the past . Which to me does not mean he is deciding to leave you but infact he wants to be with you for ever and ever. your previous relationship could be the cause of your question today. It seems to me that you feel a little insecure about this relationship but at the same time you have alot of feelings towards him..but all i can advise you is to take your time to get to know your partner before you totally give your heart away.......

  • 1 decade ago

    He might be thinking that the saying "life is too short". One day u could be alright, well and healthy and they next u could be ill or sick or run over by a car/truck. He might be thinking of the future or he has had a bad relationship b4 that has ended bad or seen his parents gone though. It could be many things.Why don't u ask y he said what he did and see what he says.

  • Jodi
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    I think he is just wanting to keep the relationship exciting for you. Maybe he means life is too short not to enjoy every moment you have together. I tend to look at things from the positive side.

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  • 1 decade ago

    if he is already organising his memories of you then he is clearly not thinking in terms of forever..but this may just be habit rather than a sign of things to come. I would call him on it and suggest that special thing he does with you is make a commitment.

  • 1 decade ago

    even tho I am a female LOL I think what he is saying is that you never know war might happen in life in general and that he wants to spice things up a bit bc he doesn't want to waist any time so obviously he has feelings for u :)

  • Link
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Lacking context, my general impression is that he really loves you and wants to heat things up a little. You probably have more of an idea than any of us.

  • 1 decade ago

    Inquire as to what 'very special' means. Is he really saying that he's bored already? You'll have to find out exactly what he means! Ask! Best to you,, ;-)=

  • 1 decade ago

    this is a first step of asking you to do a 3 way.

  • 1 decade ago

    Sorry, but I think he's trying to break up with you

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