Women... Hard To Get vs. Not Interested.. whats the difference?

Its really not that complex. Time for "Mike T's guide to dating"

Here is how you go about dating women.... First rule is don't worry so much about if shes being honest or how much she likes you or if shes playing games. Focus on ONE thing and ONE thing only... and that's RESULTS.

ARE YOU GETTING WHAT YOU WANT? If the answer is NO.. then move on to the next one.

Its that simple. I know what I expect from a woman if she will meet MY standards so its EASY to weed out a woman who is a waste of time.

For me.. a woman gets the BOOT if she fails to do the following:

-Sex by date 3 OR within 30 days (which ever comes first)

-Flirts and enjoys my company

-Always has time for me and if not.. makes time SOON

-Returns phone calls

-Asking questions about me (if she isn't asking she isn't INTERESTED!!)

That should help.

When i'm interested but dont want to be easy i'll have a conversations but i wont always be available whenever he asks if i wanna hang out,I make time on another date.I'll return phone calls if i feel like it.Sometimes im not n the mood to do so.

If I dont like the person I'll be busy a lot or I wont answer the phone,if i do i make the conversation short and say im going to sleep or im busy ill call him later(only if i dont like him period)

If i just want a friendship, I'll tell him that up front instead of just leading him on or say that im taken-it works at times sum guys dont care, but when i use that now im not lying lol

I hope this helped! :-)

If I was interested in someone, I would return calls in a timely matter (if you called while I was working, you may have to wait until I am off work), make time to hang out, and want to go out with them in a non-group situation.

I don't really believe in playing hard to get. I am not sure that I know anyone who actually does that. Either they are interested, or they are not. If they are not, focus your energies elsewhere.

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Well, here's a hint. Not interested is when you see that really disgusted look on a woman's face when you try to talk to her. Or maybe she keeps trying to walk away from you because you just gross her out.

Hard to get is more playfull, lots of smiling going on etc... Both are stupid, women need to just come out and give a simple "yes, I would like to go out with you", or a "no, now go away" answer. Sometimes my gender makes things way to complicated.

Women that play "hard to get" are both stuck-up and childish. A woman like that gets no play from me. Be genuine and real.

EDIT: Nishway, that's definitely untrue. Plenty of women that have liked me always acted like they were disinterested despite liking me. Women aren't as up-front as men.

EDIT 2: Nishway, none of that really means anything. Your initial statement was that there was no such thing as "playing hard to get". To make such a bold statement implies that there has never been an incident in human history in which a woman liked a man but pretended she didn't. Speaking for myself, I know for a fact that women play hard to get. Being "cautious" at the beginning is one thing (and men have to be cautious too, not just women), but being a "tease" by acting like she's disinterested so he can chase her even though she likes him would be an example of "playing hard to get". You're saying no women do this or have ever done this? You're either naive, or you're too proud to admit that this phenomenon does indeed exist.

EDIT 3: So you finally admitted that women do indeed play hard to get, and that it's not just a figment of men's imaginations. And men may "get it" -- they "get" that she's playing hard to get.

I honestly don't like to play games. If I like the person I will talk to him but if I don't I let him know I am with someone even if i'm not. It's a way of letting them down without disrespecting someone or hurting someone's feelings. I don't play hard to get because that is silly.

honestly, i don't like playing games...if I'm interested in someone, I'll try to get to know him...I'll hang out with him..talk on the phone and stuff like that..but of course, there's also times when we just want to be left alone..if the guy genuinely likes me,he'll understand it and give me my space...and if i think he's the guy, I'll tell him that i like him & i hope we could be more than just friends...

DUDE, if a girl is playing games with you....

FIND A NEW GIRL!!! she's not worth it...if she likes you, she would know that its unfair to be playing games with your heart..this goes to guys as well...& she should know she shouldnt treat you like that...

hope this helps..

If a woman is playing "hard to get" MOVE ON! Your entire life will be based on, guess what happens next. What sincere, rational man wants a woman into playing games from the very start? I guarantee you will never be happy and she will never be worth investing your feelings into.

1- Very very timid with him, I want him to ask the questions.

2- I like to be approached more than approaching.

3- I hate the whole hard to get thing......

^^^^Romantically

Just friends-

Uhh talk to him like a friend.