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When is he going to talk about it?

okey we've been seing each others for 7 months, but we don't live in the same city so we don't see each others all the time u know...

we speak on the phone daily, we know all about each others, all what we do, family problems, work troubles......

well, Im very satisfied in my relationship because he is a great person

the problem is that he never talks about feelings, romance, love, i mean, yes, sometimes he says that he missed me and wanna be with me ect, but never said that he has feelings for me..

Is it normal? is there a way to make him speak?!!

Update:

No dear we are moooore than friends, we've been in many romantic situations, we travelled together, and he travels to my city just to see me..

the point is that we don't speak about us, about emotions and so on....It's not a big deal but things would be much better if he will say that kind of things to me

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I have found most men are like that. they dont talk feelings unless they are getting off on you, then they moan and talk. IMHO, tht's the way they are i quess

  • 1 decade ago

    Being in a long distance relationship is hard enough. Some men don't like talking about their emotions or showing them, if you feel he is truthful then give it some more time!

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe that is because it is a long distance relationship. Sometimes couples need to be together to feel the true intimacy you have for each other.

  • Warren
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    If there are moments when you're cuddling, that may be a good time to talk about romance. If by "seeing" you just mean he's your phone pal, I don't see where you're going.

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  • 1 decade ago

    well both of you are being shy. these things take time but if you really want it out of his mouth, i hav an idea.

    tell him that you appriciate him. tell him that he's gud in everything you know. tell him that you like everything abt him.

    go low 1st and then hit him with the big ones

    All of this is to be done in one phonecall.

    Tell me when you succeed

  • 1 decade ago

    Many guys are not incredibly forthcoming with their emotions. The worst thing you can do is pressure him too much about it. If he trusts you, he will eventually open up to you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Try asking him about his feelings. Then give him some time to come up with his answer. Do u share your feelings about him with him?

  • 1 decade ago

    he could be scared because you guys are so far away he doesn't want to scare you off without the possibility of actually showing you how he feels

  • 1 decade ago

    you guys are too far apart....maybe if he falls in love with you and it does not work out it may hurt him and he probably does not want that

  • 1 decade ago

    ahm maybe he just treats you as a friend??

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