Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 1 decade ago

Although we get married 6 yrs but shes not into sex as well so i masturbate a lot . what should i do ?

15 Answers

Relevance
  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Honor your wedding vows!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    She should be having sex with you. It's not a medical problem, it's just laziness and lethary and a lack of concern for what you need. Make sure she understands how important it is to you to have regular sex or you might want to consider dumping her.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    got to work her up ... not just jump on her.

    Women like to still feel attractive and needed as the relationship ages.

    What about helping her around the house,talking and listening to her...just give her some attention honey how was yo day?, maybe massage to relax her.(when u mean it,not bcz u want some later..!!)take time for yoselves without kids...

    Source(s): been there trust me..i'm a woman
  • 1 decade ago

    ask her why. did you put on a lot of weight, did she she may be losing attraction. she may be tired of the same old stuff, go to a sex shop together and get some toys ,or a movie

  • How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.
  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    You might trying to include her in your masturbation times, she may enjoy viewing you more than having the actual sexual intercourse. Good luck.

  • .
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Find out if her lack of libido is a medical issue...if not, try counseling to see if there's something psychological that is causing her to not desire sex.

  • 1 decade ago

    well when you get married somewhere in there you all agree to be submissive to one another. i guess shes really unaware of that, so she must be extending the agreement that allows you to go elsewhere for you sexual pleasure.whatcha think?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Women CRAVE intimacy with their sexual encounters. Make sure you aren't just jumping her bones.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I went through that. Sleep with someone else.

  • 1 decade ago

    talk to her about it and look into other options to boost her sex drive.

  • 1 decade ago

    keep masturbating you should have married someone you love who love you not arranged marriage

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.