working moms??

I think that by doing your degree you will be making the right choice. I think spending some time in daycare is good for children. I sent my son to nursery at one and the difference we saw in him was amazing. He became much more confident and really came out of himself. Just make the most of the time you do have together, do things together and always make sure they know you love them. Kids have to be seperated from mum sooner or later when they go to school.

OK super-mom you ready for my advice?

I am 23 with three kids and one on the way, as well as 3 step-kids. Full house. I currently have a part time job and am starting on-line courses in November at a local school so that I can go for my psych degree.

My mom found a balance when she did it. She said it was not always easy and not always fun, but some how you just know what works best for you.

It is hard for me to leave my kids and for me to sit down in the class room for long periods of time. My mind constantly wonders off to my kids or home life or other things. I think that the best thing for me is on-line classes.

Hope this advice helps you.

I work part time and take classes at our local community college, and I have a seven month old daughter. I know a lot of people at school who are raising families, going to school, and working. It is possible, but very difficult. I chose to keep working after my daughter was born because I have a tendancy towards depression and I know if I am shut up in the house with no one to talk to (at least no one that can talk back to me!) I would be depressed in no time. I want my daughter to have the best ME that I can give her, and I become that person when I have an outside occupation. It's as simple as that. I am able to do this because my mother-in-law watches the baby 2 of my work days, she goes to day care 1 day, and my husband watches her while I am in class during the evening and when I have to do homework. I know she is always safe and happy and enjoys spending time with other people besides me. Before I went back to work, I swear she was bored with me by the end of the day because she was so excited when my husband got home.

Good luck!

Wow-20 years old and three kids already? You've been busy-with something other than much needed grammar and spelling lessons.

You're number one *goal* is raising those children and providing them with constant love, support and care. That means you need a job in case your husband or partner is unable to provide for food, clothing, shelter, educational and medical costs. Go for it- it won't be easy but neither is raising three kids before the age of 20.

I'm a working single mom. I don't think it would make someone a better mom, persay, but yes, it is good to have goals. If you want to be a psychologist, go for it! Just remember to stick to it because its very hard to go to juggle school, work, and kids (this would be my life lol). It is hard, don't get me wrong. It just takes alot of focus.

thats good to be a working mom. i find this better for the babies. they realize that work is needed and grow up knowing that you cant just be lazy....thats my very mature (sarcastic) pregnant 17 year old perspective anyways.

You make the time and loss some sleep. You have to get organized with your time.