Ria B

I live in Alaska but my best friend who lives in California is in desperate need of a vehicle to fit her family of 6. I really want to help her and woud buy her the van myself if I had the finances for it. What can I do, or who can I ask to get her the help she needs? this is a struggling, hard working family that wouldn't dream of asking anyone for help but they really need it and I feel hopeless way over here on seemingly the other end of the world.

no rude comments please I just need ideas to try and get this family a car

I was just given some of this flavored honey and I'm not sure what to do with it other than possibly putting it in tea? what do you reccomend?

I've never been claustrophobic. not much bothers me to extremes really but recently at random parts of some days I just have this terrible chlaustrophobic feeling and I have no idea where it comes from or why its happening. My family has been under quite a bit of stress lately but I didn't think it was getting to me but I guess it is?? What am I dealing with here? kinda feels like panic attacks or something but I don't even know...I'm probably just crazy huh?

In July I got a really bad UTI, I went to the doctor and got medication but it didn't help so I continued to go in. When 3 different medications didn't work they started testing for other things. I've now gotten tested for all the STD's and they have all come up negative but I am still having severe pain. I am on a 3rd day of a medication for a UTI today and I'm incredibly discouraged because the first couple days it seemed to mellow out but now its flared up again. and I'm on medication! What can this be?? I'm worried it might be a infection in the fallopian tubes but the doc I've gone to keeps dismissing that thought and wont test me for it, but none of th UTI meds are working! I want to try and have another baby but I can't when this thing (whatever it is) keeps flaring. has anyone had anything similar...what did you do to get it fixed? I do everythign your suppossed to do, I go pee all the time, drink lots of water, pee after sex, keep it clean....what the heck?

So I am not wanting to share many details so this will be vague but my little sister has been having teen troubles (she is 14) that range from as small as just not liking my folks rules to bigger things for a while now and she is very much withdrawn and basically refuses to let anyone in. A few days ago my brother called me in a panic over something she had said, it scared me so when she wouldn't talk to me on the phone I drove over there. When I got to my folks place she was crying but refused to talk to anyone and all she would say is that she will not talk to anyone and we just need to stop caring because she will not say what is bothering her so much. The only thing that I could get her to agree to is that she would come stay with me at least till the end of Christmas break. I thought maybe a different environment and a break from the everyday life at home might help her with...something. My husband and I sat down with her the next day and asked her basically what she was wanting to get away from, why she is so hateful to our folks, how we could help her.....we literally got no response. I have no idea if me having her stay here is helping anything! she will talk a little about light stuff and goof off with me but if I ask her any question that is at all serious to her she shuts down and says she doesn't want to talk about it. Is there anything I can do to make her really see that my heart is only to help her? our whole family is just kinda dumbfounded by her extreme lack of communication and we have no idea how to even start any type of conversation because all we get is " i dunno" or " i don't care" even when just asking her about simple christmas presents! "what do you want for christmas?" ..." I don't want anything, don't get me anything" its frustrating.

I am 8 yrs older than my sis so when she was little I missed out on quite a bit just because I got busy in my own teenage drama and than ended up married at 18 and I just lost her somewhere...I want my sister back! did I do the right thing having her come stay with me till only God knows when....

Ok so my whole family had gotten this random flue fluke thing a couple of weeks ago and it only lasted a couple hours real severe and than it just stopped, but now my 3 yr old will be perfectly fine for a couple of days and than about every other night he wakes up and pukes and than goes back to sleep and is perfectly fine for the rest of the night and great the next morning, I'm starting to get really worried. What could this be? my husband thinks that maybe its a mental thing and he is dreaming of puking and than it happens?

I'm having an interesting time right now and I was just curious really.

I feel kinda ridiculous at the moment but my little girls are growing out of thier size 6 (toddler shoes) and I can't find the next size up...I was able to buy my litte boy 7's and he's now in 9's but now that girls need them I can't find them is there something I'm missing??

Ok, I'm 20 yrs old I have 3 kids, and I want to get a degree in psycology. I have been raised that working moms are not ok But I actually feel that I will be a better mom by doing this. I mean you can't really be a good mom when you have no specific goals for youself?? anyways my question is How do you be the best mom you can be with a "career" I want to go to school I want to work I want to be the best mom ever....How do you shuffle all of this??

relationship wise and at what point would you leave?? just curious

ok heres the thing. I'm a stay at home mom right now. I really hate depending on my Husband for everything, even my groceries because I don't have a vehicle I want some independance I would love to work. But right now I have no car and I don't know if I was working if we could afford daycare for 3 children. I can't work from home because you still have to go places and I just don't have transportation at all am I making excuses for myself or am I really stuck?? Can I get a job with no vehicle and living in the boonies??? I'm so frustrated with myself right now!

Its definatly not from lack of sleep, but I've heard that this can be caused from lack of Iron is this true?? and if so what extra vitamin supplements can I give her. I can't give her straight Iron tablets

I keep having thes head aches and the main pain is behind my right eye and than goes down to my shoulder and down my right arm and all through my spine...Its driving me crazy!!! its not like a horrible pain but it is one of those consistant pains that eventually drives you crazy...what could be causing it to be in the same exact spot everyday?? it sometimes is in both sides of my head but that isn't consistant....help me please?? I've never had any serious neck or back injuries so just don't know

does anyone else NOT watch it??

My husband and I seperated after 2 yrs of mairrage We decided to get back together pretty shortly after we seperated, but I haven't actually seen him since the last part of July. I'm flying down to meet him tonight and we are going to drive back to where I am currently at. I'm so nervous! He has gotten really fit in these four months and I ....well still have a bit of baby belly, not much but I'm sure its not attractive, although I've never told him that I'm so insecure about it. Ugh...I'm scared he's gonna be dissapointed with me and regret wanting me back...how can I just stop thinking and relax!! I act all bubbly and happy when I talk to him but I'm so scared inside

I've been married two years now I have 3 kids,(a 3 yr old and twin 17 month olds) and my dreams stopped there...now I have no clue what to do. I want to raise my kids with many things to teach them and I want them to have the biggest dreams because I know they can accomplish them, they are all so smart. I myself want to go to school, but for what I have no clue. All I ever dreamed of was being a mom and a wife, and now that I have that I realize that there is life beyond motherhood and you have to constantly pass down wisdom and how am I supposed to do that if all I do is cook thier meals and clean up after them and love with everything I have? I dont know what exactly I'm asking I'm just stuck....sigh...I know I'm a good person and I know I could accomplish anything I put my mind too with God's help, but what do I want to do?? I thought I'd have something figured out by now.

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please my heart is so broken

My husband and I seperated back in august. He sent me back to our home state, and stayed in the other state. We decided to try again. He was going to come home to be with me at the end of this month. He has no decided that he doesn't want to come home and he wants me to come there. I'm freaking out A LOT I don't want to uproot everything again to go back down to a man that may not even truely want me. It just seems like he does whatever he wants to do and if I don't follow along with it that I wasn't meant to be with him or something. I asked him the other day if he truelly wanted me back or if he just wanted us to work so he didn't have another divorce on his record.....his response was "I'm willing to try but if you don't want to than stay there" ......how is that supposed to make me feel wanted?? anyways....what should I do? there is 3 kids involved. and as of right now he has no idea when he wants me to come down.......can we make it through all this on just a whim??

My husband and I seperated nearly two months ago and I'm gonna be moving back in with him here pretty soon (as soon as he has somewhere for me to come back too) and I was just wondering how in the world are we gonna be able to make this harsh transition with the kids and everything?? I'm living in a different state right now with the kids. is there a way to make this transition easier on us all so we don't end up in the same rut we were before?? we won't really have the option of staying in seperate places so we can kinda date and reconnect....we will just be immediatly living together again....it makes me nervous.

when I wash my hair now I can rinse it for an hour and it still feels as though its still got stuff in it. and its so hard to brush through and it almost feels sticky...its grose. I need a good clarifying shampoo or something to help it...My poor hair :(....someone help? It still looks pretty from far away but I'm to embarresed to go to a salon and have someone touch it :s