haven't seen my husband in four months, i'm nervous?

if he wanted to try again, he will love you regardless. to most men things like "baby bellies" don't even bother them because it's a direct result of having their child and most men appreciate that more than anything. he probably still loves you enough so try not to stress too much. i can't tell you not to be nervous... but it will be okay as soon as you both see each other again!

good luck

She will be fine and no she will not forget you. I would go to your parents a few days early, just so baby can get used to the environment and them. You will be there to show any secret things that she likes and that sooth her. She will be loved and cherished while you are gone and you will get to see your husband. It is important that yall keep your relationship strong and a visit would help with that. I couldn't imagine being away from my husband that long. There is no reason to feel bad about leaving her. It would be a lot harder if she was older because then she would care a lot more about being left. So now is a great time to go visit. Enjoy and safe travels.

Relax. He still has those feelings for you that he had when you two were together. Just the fact that he wants to get back together is a good sign. It doesn't really matter how you look. He is probably looking at you with his heart and not his eyes anyway. So, just put on something nice and have a good time with him. : )

I think it's nice to have butterflies....it means you care. But have them for the right reasons. It sounds like you are concerned that you are for one reason or another not going to be good enough for him. What is making you think this way? I think you have to get out of that mindset and make sure this relationship is healthy for you. I'm not saying that it isn't, but I'm hearing a lot of self-doubt in your question. I'm sure there is a reason he wants to try again with you....and I'm sure it's because he realizes you are a great person.

if he loves you for who you are... nothing to worry. just relax and play by the ear. You think being you fit will really makes him stay?

What was really the cause of your separation to begin with? Is it worth having a second chance?

It's normal to feel nervous... just go for it baby

Relax. As a guy, I can tell you that he will love you back if your love is sincere. He will not care about the baby belly, just as long as you share the love. We men have a tendency of overlooking any imperfections that our ladies feel about themself. We don't ignore them, we overlook them.

I have a scar over my eye from my younger years. It bothers me terribly, but my wife still loves me.

She has stretch marks from child birth, and she is still the lovely goddess that I married in the beginning.

Trust me on this, if he truly loves you, he won't care about any imperfection.

If he didn't want you back because of something that trivial, then you don't need him. I am sure that he is looking for what's on the inside. We, as women, are much harder on ourselves than our mate. You should work on your self confidence and I think you would be much more positive about everything. I wish you the very best of luck!

Don't worry about it. If he's into you, your belly won't be the deciding factor.

Relax, be yourself, and lose yourself in the moment. Be happy to be together with him, and make the moment count.

Enjoy yourself.

Good luck with your relationship...I hope things work out for the best.

didn't you see Pulp Fiction where Bruce Willis tell the cute girl her belly is soooo cute?

You could have it worse like being 100 pound overweight so get over yourself girl...just enjoy yourself...get some Valerian or passionflower pills to relax you (don't know if ok to mix with booze though, check it out)

Please don't worry about it. If he married you and he shouldn't be worried about a little belly fat! Look, if he doesn't, he is not worth your time. Keep your chin up and walk confidently. I'm sure you look fine! Have a great night and the best of luck to both of you! :)