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should i keep wearin hijab?

im 13 years old .i sarted wearing hijab 8 months ago, but just put it on in ramdan and didnt think much of it. In the hols i went to saudi arabia to perfom umrah. out there i realised how much comitiment it really takes. now that iv'e come back i dnt think i have that comittment and i dont think i have that strength or the mental ability. i feel a bit bad coz like i wear it to skool and it would look stupid if i took it off after 8 months, but feel so stronly about it. what should i do? is it a great sin if i take it off. (no one forced me to wear it it was my own choice, my mum doesnt wear it)

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    I'm not a Muslim, but, I have studied the Koran. If that's OK with you, I'd like to say that if you really believe that Allah is the Most Merciful, the Most Beneficent; then your wearing or discarding the hijab shouldn't make you worried.

    Unfortunately, many Muslims forget that the Koran says, explicitly, that it is Allah who shall judge and dispense.

    My advise is do what you feel is right, aziza.

    Trust in Allah, the Most Merciful, the Most Beneficent and don't worry about the so called "scholars" who tell you otherwise.

    Jazallahun khairan, aziza.

    Allah hafiz.

    ST

  • Think about it seriously for a while. You don't want to stop wearing it for a few weeks, and then start again. Decide for real.

    It's your choice. A lot of Muslim women in the USA don't wear their hijabs, except to the masjid. Where I live, though, a lot of girls and women DO wear the hijab, all the time.

  • 1 decade ago

    It's up to you to follow Allah's orders or not =)

    Allah gave us his religion and his orders clearly. It's our choice to follow or reject them. Yet when we reject his orders we are the losers!

    It may not be easy for you. I understand how hard it is(especially that your mother doesn't put it). but remember it's a struggle (jihad) between you and your desires. The harder it is the more ajr you get. Pray for Allah and ask for help. Tell him with honesty that you don't want to disobey him. Tell him to strengthen you and help you.

    Hang out with girls who wear it, to get support and advice.

    Source(s): Muslim woman who wears the Hijab since she was 11
  • 1 decade ago

    i already knew tat was coming, u should never decide to take a hijab on ur own becuz u will end up taking off like my two cousins so ya i would suggest u take it off if u cant handle the importance of it otherwise just keep it on.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    No one will think bad off you if you take it off. They might ask you why?

    Dont let anyone make you feel bad for what you do or believe.

    Its not a sin.

  • 1 decade ago

    Do you want to? Do whatever you're comfortable with. Sadly the things we remember the clearest from our past are our mistakes and things that made us uncomfortable.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I agree with Ra. You won't look dumb if you take it off.

    Just enjoy yourself and the short life that you live. You only live once sweety. :)

  • 1 decade ago

    This is a decision you have to make on your own.

    We can't make it for you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Take it off, enjoy your schooldays

  • mandy
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    i m not an expert but i think you are supposed to wear it when you reach puberty(anyone please correct me if im wrong)

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