Death of our cat?

I am very sorry for the loss of this beautiful cat. Bless you for the love and joy you showed her, she will live on in your heart forever and she will one day meet you at the Rainbow Bridge. May you find comfort in her memory and the joy she brought to you.

while I am deeply saddened by your loss, may I recommend when you can reaching out and saving another lost soul in this world. There are millions of homeless cats, and thousands are put to sleep every single day because there aren't enough homes for them, and thousands more dying on the streets never having known the love of a good family and the joy of sleeping on a soft bed.

If you don't feel you can take in another cat at this time, donating to a spay/neuter clinic to help keep other cats from becoming homeless, or spending time at a local rescue and giving love and support to those waiting for homes.

Accidents happen. Even if she had never left your house, there is the chance she could have died early. You did what you could. Forgive yourself as I am sure she has, and remember there are others out there that need you

I am so sorry to hear of her untimely death - surely you are not the average people who view their cats as disposable commodities or you would not have brought them halfway across the world with you. Accidents can happen even to the most caring and responsible of people. Perhaps coming home immediately would have saved her, and perhaps not. It's very easy to second guess these things, and blame yourself for what happened.

When the time is right, you can honor her memory by saving another equally deserving cat. It won't bring back Jamilla, but will make a big difference in the life of the one you save.

I'm so sorry... sometimes people do things that they regret, and would do anything to take back. You came home, you were tired after traveling, and you made a mistake. Jamilla loves you and your wife- I'm sure she forgives you.

Edit: The person who said that many indoor cats get out is right. They have a mind and will of their own- and sometimes they want to explore. This is how cats are, and one of the reasons we love them.

I am so sorry that you lost your Jamilla. Ignore those who failed to read and understand your post. You are NOT a bad or irresponsible person. Please, do not be too hard on yourself. You were being more than responsible and doing the best thing for her by keeping her indoors. I think that most of us who choose to keep our cats indoors have experienced them somehow getting outdoors on at least one occasion. It doesn't mean that we are irresponsible or that we do not love them. It is just something that unfortunately happens on occasion. Take the time that you need to grieve the loss of your Jamilla. Know that she does not begrudge you, and that you provided her with the very best life possible in her time with you. In time, your memories and thoughts will return to the good things. When you feel that the time is right, consider bringing another cat in need into your life. Again, I am so sorry for your loss.

That's probably the hardest way ever to lose a beloved cat as we can feel like we are responsible. We are not the arbitors of our cats (or others) lives. Each has its own path in the scheme of life.

I have never lost a cat that way. My Spookie died of mammary cancer, a rescue cat died within the year of my adopting him of oral cancer. Yesterday I learned that my Mincho's bladder tumor has returned. He has had almost two years of "remission" and his life has been much longer than expected. All those cats have never been off my property and had the best medical help I could give them.

Do not carry guilt in your heart. Her beautiful spirit will be with you always and she holds you in her heart forever and does not want you to grieve for her - only to rejoice in the wonderful time she had with you and you with her.

Sorry to hear about Jamilla. We know only too well the loss of a pet that's really apart of the family. Cat's arewanderer's and pretty hard to curtail that natural instinct. Take care, Ro

Your fur baby is grieving over the shortcoming of his housemate. If both were bond this is a challenge that takes position once you lose one. you would possibly want to attempt getting yet another spouse for him. the priority with attempting to introduce yet another cat into the domicile is in case you cat is older he might want to no longer want a kitten round. Older animals often times don't like youthful kittens jumping on all of them the time. reliable success.

I'm so sorry for your loss. Losing a pet is always difficult and painful. In time, the pain and grief will subside. Know that you gave your kitty a wonderful home, even if it was for only a short time. When you're ready, please consider rescuing another beautiful cat.

I'm very sorry for your loss. Pets occupy a similar role to very small children: no matter what happens, we feel responsible. We can never expect our pets to understand why they shouldn't run into the street, chew on electric cables etc. When they die from unexpected illness, we blame ourselves for not noticing the symptoms sooner. We are their guardians and protectors, so when something happens, we view ourselves as responsible for that as well - and it is only a short step from feeling "responsible" to feeling "guilty."

When my beloved 19 year old cat had to be put to sleep after a bad experience at a vets, I beat myself up about that for a long time. I felt an overwhelming sense of guilt for choosing a bad vet. One day I came across an article written especially for bereaved pet owners entitled "Breaking the power of guilt". Reading that really helped me to come to terms with my loss, and I hope it may do the same for you.

http://www.pet-loss.net/guilt.html