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Am I doing the right thing?

My g/f and I have split for the very last time in what was an almost 4 yr relationship... on and off though... I can't bear to see her locally and with out feelings for me, as her friends express she is already over me... I've decided to move far away to close all ties with her... But I feel bad for leaving the family and friends here... Should I feel bad, and is right to move so far away to run from someone I still love... She's also made it clear, that she will never get back with me... I cheated on her long ago, and she's finally realized she deserves better.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    I thought about suggesting that you move away for a while, a year or so maybe...but then, when you came back you would still see her and feel the same way. You're going to have to deal with it either way. If you don't mind leaving your friends and family, go for it. If its what you want to do, they will get over it.

    But if you're going to lose your whole life just because of one girl...don't do it. You're worth more than that. Maybe you could just move 20 minutes away, just so you don't run into her.

    I hope it works out for you...break ups really suck and they make you do irrational things. So think about that before you do anything crazy.

  • 1 decade ago

    I was in a 5 yrs relationship with someone I thought was special,but we had our ups & downs. when I finally broke it off with her it was hard, I still saw her,still had " those " feelings but I got through them.

    Just like Candy said" It doesnt matter where you move or not" your still gonna have to deal with the feelings and your gonna have to get over her.

    You need to start fresh and make a new life for yourself.

    You can call it " The new begining" and prioritize the important things in your life and before your know it you will have a new partner and a fresh start.

  • 1 decade ago

    sounds like you are just running away from what you need to deal with. You can't run every time something gets hard or doesn't turn out the way you wanted it to. Sounds like you should learn to be faithful as well. If you really cared about her as much as you said you did you wouldn't have cheated on her in the first place.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yes i think you made the right choice... move on and get someone better...

    Good Luck Hunn...

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  • 1 decade ago

    honey, she wasn't in control, moving away shows her that you still like her.... even if you do you should of stay... you move for you not anyone else

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i think you need to get her out of your head get away from her

  • 1 decade ago

    cant you still be friends?

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