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Dee S asked in PetsCats · 1 decade ago

New cat - how do I get her to come out of hiding??

We got a cat 5 days ago - a beautiful smoke Persian. We got her from a rescue - and she came to them from a VERY abusive home. She nearly died before the lady at the rescue got her medical attention (including a blood transfusion). She is very healthy now! However - since we brought her home, she has been hiding. Behind the sofa, under the bed, chairs etc. She hasnt come out even ONCE. We have 2 other cats and a small dod - who she seems fine with (when they find her) - and she lets us pet her in her hiding place. How can I get her to come out & explore without traumatizing her?? I have been taking small dishes of food & water to wherever she's hiding. Any suggestions?? I really would love to get to know her so that I can give her a name! :)

Update:

I don't think my expectations are too high at all - I am just concerned for her. I want to make sure she is eating & drinking - and knows where the litter box is. Her health & comfort is my top priority. I have been adoped by many cats over the past 30 years - and I love them dearly!

Update 2:

To Chris: "dod" = typo - sorry. And I took her into my home with other pets because she was in a shelter with other cats AND dogs. I asked the rescuer - and she said that the cat had no problem socializing with other animals. And the reason I was putting food & water near her, is because I wanted to make sure she was at LEAST hydrating. I didn't know if she was scared enough to forego eating & drinking.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    if you got her from rescue mabey she was abused or scared by people so she might be nervouse of them already. my advice would be lure her with food but sit close to the food and when she comes close to eat slowly reach out and pet her and show her your not a threat.Just being around her and not being mean or scary should be enough because she would become used to you and no longer scared.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I adopted a cat 4 wks ago and it took her about a week to come out of hiding. Your cat will take longer because of the abuse.

    What you should do is put the new cat in a small room with food, water, and litter box. Keep the door closed so that the other cats will leave it alone. Leave her in there and go in occasionally but do not try to pick her up. Just sit and see if she will come and see you. Don't force it on her. By having the cats separated they will go to the door and will be able to smell each other and get used to the scent. This will take some time with the new cat.

    Why did you take a cat that was in your words very abused and just put her into a house with 2 other cats and a "dod"?

    STOP PUTTING FOOD RIGHT NEAR WERE SHE IS HIDING. IF YOU WANT HER TO COME OUT SHE WILL HAVE TO FOR FOOD AND WATER IF IT ISN'T RIGHT THERE......

    The cat will come out for food and water. You say that you have other cats I would think that you understand this.

  • 1 decade ago

    She'll come out in due time, just let her be for now, put some food and water out, she'll come around. Right now, her hiding place is her sense of security, let her be comfortable. She could be hiding for awhile, maybe up to a month. She will take as long as she needs. Force her, and she will just go back to hiding.

    From what you describe, she has been through alot, so it really can't be a surprise to you why she isn't coming out. Your expectations are just too high. Just comfort her the best way you can.

    Edit; Oh yeah, I totally understand what you're saying. Didn't mean to offend you, but yeah she won't starve herself, she will eat just probably when you're not there. Some cats are very private about their eating and litter habits. She will eat and drink when she feels. Also, there are some cats that are in hiding majority of the time, it's all personality.

    Source(s): I work in a shelter.
  • 1 decade ago

    Get her a basket or carry cage (prefferably something that is covered on top, so she can hide) and put her in this and leave her in the room with yourself and lock all the other animals out, just let her come out on her own, leave the basket there for her to run to if she feels nervous, when she realises that she can get away and be safe at any time she will come out more, i had a kitten the same as yours she was so nervous and very sick, but she is great now, if you sit still and just put your hand out (dont move it though) she will come to you, once she is used to you and comfortable with her surroundings, slowly introduce her to the other animals leaving the basket there so she still has her safe place, it will take time, be patient, hope this helps

    Source(s): My own nervous kitten
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  • 1 decade ago

    Well see I work at a shelter and in my experiance I've dicovered that cats come out one of 2 diffrent ways if they come from an abueive family.

    They either come out very ferrel (mean) or very scared like yours did.

    I work with both of those kind of cats and the best thing to do is to just keep petting her alot and make sure she doesn't get scared for awhile. and once she discovers that you aren't a threat then she will start comming out BUT it WILL take a while (like 2 weeks at the least, or maybe close to a month) before she is comfortablewith you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Just let her get used to her surroundings. Don't worry, she'll come

    out soon. Be really gentle around her, so you don't startle her or

    anything. And maybe next time you feed her, try putting the food

    right outside of her hiding place, see if she'll come out to eat. But

    kind of keep the other cats and dog away from her at first. She may

    not be as okay with them as you think she is, so give her time to

    get use to them also.

    Good luck, I hope she decides to come out soon!

  • 5 years ago

    placed it in an remoted room like a bathroom with nutrition, water, toys the litterbox and doubtless a mattress for some days. The kitten would cover in the back of the bathroom for a short even as yet this is because this is beaten and scared because this is in a sparkling ecosystem with faces it hasn't ever seen nor does you've self belief yet. pass in there for a even as and confer with the kitten or maybe as she realized you received't harm her she will have the ability to be commence to believe you. then you definately can let her have the run of the homestead.

  • 1 decade ago

    try keeping other pets especially the dog out of the room and put her food just outside the hiding place. if you have anything familiar from the rescue centre put it near the food and hiding place then just let her come out of her own accord.

    introduce her to other pets gradually

  • 1 decade ago

    have you tried just sitting in the room with her alone in absolute quiet with some treats to draw her out? because of the abuse she will be extremely hesitant to come near people who she may feel will mistreat her. all the books i read before getting my cat was to sit in a quiet room with treats and let them come to you, it will take time, love and patience good luck and i hope things go well.

  • 1 decade ago

    scruff of neck handling.mother cats do that and kittens look to who ever as that parent when handled so.when you catch it keep it with you a while ,carry it around.make it a place in a towel or somthing,maybe carry the towel around too.thrift stores have many things unless you prefer new.small blankets or pillows.toys.. food dishes.

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