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I got strong feelings for ex's best friend.!!!?

Me and my ex still see each other, we are good friends.

recently we have been hanging around together and i have fallen for his friend, i cant stop thinking about him.

i am not dumb, it will never go anywhere, it cant. but how teh hell am i gonna get this out my fu ckin head.

Update:

i have told ex, he didnt like it one bit. his friend that i cant stop thinkin about likes me too, i can feel it. he looks at me and when i look, he turns away. he always says hi overally wantin to come and make a convo, but i dont think i could disrespect my ex, and i dont want people to give me a label etc..... this is fuc kin killin me.

i feel like a stupid teenager again!! arrrgggggh A!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I wouldn't suggest using a chizel and hammer, but anyway..

    As most of the other answers have said, just ask him out, or find another boy to occupy your time, or turn into a homosexual, or take up another hobby or even move countries (if your desperate...).

    There's a million things you could do if you really wanted to forget him, but it would be suggested that you either ask him out or find another guy.

  • 1 decade ago

    Flip the situations. What if he wanted to date your best friend?

    That feeling you just got from reading/thinking about it, that sudden flash of jealousy or anger (even if it was small), is what he'll feel as well.

    Usually things like this are off-limits just as a matter of respect.

    You'll have to decide based on how "over" each other you two really are, and figure out how much potential his friend really has for a fulfilling relationship (obviously risking any friends/awkwardness for a one-weekend fling isn't worth it).

  • 1 decade ago

    give it a try and tell him how you feel so even if he doesnt feel the same way back you are at least getting it out. You never no maybe something good will happen when you tell. Dont just go out and say it right away though talk a little bit and when you think its a good time tell him.

  • 1 decade ago

    head being the word here yes try him out on the side thats naughty are you a naughty girl ithought so and your ex is that a go?

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  • lima
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    i'm glad you know it won't go anywhere. you'll just have to avoid him for as long as it will take for you to get over him.

    maybe you should let your ex know how you feel about his friend? he might make things easier for you, except of course, you two aren't that good friends?

  • 1 decade ago

    follow your heart only you know what you want, the best thing to do would be to ask your ex. Good Luck

    Source(s): Fritz
  • 1 decade ago

    lifes too short to worry bout what other people think!! Why cant it happen!!??? i say go for it and never hold back on or regret anything that makes you smile.!!!

    =D good luck.x

  • 1 decade ago

    just find someone you know you have a chance with and is much better than him or go after him.

  • 1 decade ago

    go for her. why being hard to yourself. not unless you love everybody around then you can ignore him like anyone. othewise hey do what you like.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    go to your friend... and ask if it's okay!

    it will be weird... but perhaps you can negotiate both relationships.

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