How gross is it? (women only answer, please)

it is not unusual at all, i think your age is fantastic. there is a lot of experience in the sack. which is plus and you know how to treat a lady. it may be intimidating for us (young ones; i am 25) to first be interested but i think you are just right.

i date guys that i am attracted to. and i'm guessing non-gold diggers do the same~~

as long as both adults know what they want and what they have gotten into, i don't think you should mind too much~~

to me, 30 years is a pretty big age difference... but ppl have different preferences. IF you're comfortable with your gf and she feels the same, then that' s really all the matters~

I have to agree. A younger woman isn't going to marry an older man for love. She's doing it for the money. Honestly if it's for the right reasons, love, then I'm happy for people who get married. But I can't be happy for women who are gold diggers. This coming from a women.

Lots of older guys have younger girlfriends and brides, but that doesn't necessarily make it right. Usually it ends up like the stereotyped hot younger girl and filthy rich older guy scenario - they're in it for the monetary benefits.

I don't find it gross at all. If two people are both adults and comfortable with the age difference, what does it matter to everyone else?

If you looked like you needed ironing when you are naked I would say eww gross-lol but since you take care of yourself and she cares about you then that's all that counts.