My brother has been with a woman for 2 years.. she is still married and has a child

you want her gone kill her with kindness seriously this does work. Allow your brother the time to take the rose colored glasses off on his own, because he most certainly will, I feel that she is a woman with no substance and women like this love to cause turmoil between family members and as long as she is still married to someone else then theres one thing that you know your brother cannot do. But remember the rebelious stage if someone tells you not to do something are you not going to do it anyway

You can tell him all you want but people in situations like this aren't usually inclined to listen.

He's made and continues to make poor choices, such as becoming involved with a married woman.

Continue to love your brother, be civil and polite. Hope that he is happy and be a good sister if it ever hits the fan.

there isn't goint to be a way to tell him this in a serious manner. while you may not like this girl, she is his...and therefore if being with her is a mistake...it's his to make, not yours. the fact that your family is trying to seperate them and keep them apart might be making your brother want her more. as for making comments about the situation, umm, how did you think that was going to go down? how would you feel if your brother was badmouthing your boyfriend? are you going to be receptive to that? he shouldn't be dating someone that is married. i'll give you that. however, he's gonna do what he wants to do. he isn't 12.

most importantly, who the heck are you to judge anyone to harshly? have you ever even gotten to know her? it sounds like you have not. you are acting like your sh*t doesn't stink and like you and your family is super high class. news flash...your brother is tuning you out because you are being now like you probably have always been...judgemental, elitist, and narrowminded. you'd better think about what people are saying here before you lose a reltionship with your brother forever.

Well confronting him wont solve anything it would makes matter worst and he'll surely be mad at you and the family. Stop trying to break him up and let life teaches him a lesson. Until she done him wrong and he'll be devastated and then he'll look back and realized what he's doing is wrong and stupid and will be regretted for sure. There is an old saying, "experience is a greatest teacher"

You can lead a horse to water... but you can't make it drink...

All you can do is keep your mouth shut. He'll finally see things when he is ready. All you can do is be there for him when his world comes crashing down.

If you want to help in little ways, why not try introducing some good women to him. When he sees he can get what he deserves, he'll probably drop her quicker than he can even remember his own name.

Just tell him how you feel about her privately. If he chooses to stay with her than at least he can't say you never warned him. Ultimately this is his life and like it or not he will stay with her until he realizes her for who she really is...Good Luck to you

Let's see, how do you tell someone you love that you don't want them to be with the person that makes them so happy?? Hmmmm.... oh that's right- YOU DON'T. You mind your own damn business.

Print out your post and give it to him. He doesn't need niceness.