Mildly Confused? Please Help?

Question

My middle school crush seemingly rolled back into my life just a short month ago. I finally urged myself to tell her my feelings and she felt flattered. To my surprise, instead of taking me up on my feelings she said, that if I ever wanted a great lay to call her. yeah, yeah, awesome, but I again told her, that I felt much more for her than that... We've been talking hanging out, but my feelings are growing stronger, and I can't find the words to say to make her understand what it is that I want from her... 

I'm 22 and so is she, I just don't know how to keep from jumping out of my skin when I see her... just catching a glance from her from across the room makes me all jittery... 

Any Advise?

clearscreen · Accepted Answer

Sounds like she's into the lay not the layered relationship. So you have to decide whether it's sex or symbols you want from her and go from there. You can't make her want to have the relationship - but you can have the athletics, if you want.

Kassino · Answer

write her a letter to tell her how you feel..but ultimately you need 2 accept that she only wants sex. You need to protect your heart because by trying to get involved in a "relationship" or sleeping with her she will break your heart. If she reads the letter & still says she feels the same way, distance yourself from her to make sure you don't get hurt

Ayden aka AJ · Answer

maybe she's trying to tell u or hint to u that she feels the same way about u. Just ask her how she feels about u if she feels that way about u.

stalyun253 · Answer

Slow your roll, love.  What's up with that????  WTF????  Didn't you hear her say if you wanted a good lay??!!!!!  Does she roll like THAT?????  You don't know WHO she's been with or WHERE she's been!  Be cool!!!!!!

Protect your heart, because it sounds like it will be broken before you know it.

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Mildly Confused? Please Help?

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