I want to get my dog neutered, boyfriend disagrees! Help!?

You are correct to want to neuter your dog. In addition to the reasons you listed, your dog's behavior is another. When he reaches sexual maturity, he may develop behaviors such as humping, or running away or being otherwise distractible because he won't be able to think of much else other than finding a mate. Ask your boyfriend how he would like it if HE couldn't do anything about HIS sexual urges...frustrated!

Making a decision to spay a female is probably easier, I guess, because afterward it isn't noticeable that they are missing parts. But really, it doesn't take long to get used to seeing your male dog without his little coconuts....tell bf "life will go on, I promise".

If he lives with you then its you that are going to suffer the consequences of not neutering him, so its you who should decide. It is an easy operation for a male dog, stops him getting cancer, he will live longer and a more healthier life and you will save a fortune in vets bills. You are unlikely to suffer him running away to find any female dog in heat within a 5 mile radius, 'marking' his territory every time he goes for a walk at every corner, he is likely to be a more sociable dog and unless he is a champion and you know about conformation and bloodlines you should not breed. If you want a stud dog then you have one (good or bad) if you want a pet then get him neutered!

Why is it always the man who doesn't think it is right, it is not your boyfriend you are asking to be neutered just your dog and at 7 months old get it done now before the dominant nature takes hold.

I have to say you won't know anything has been done a few hours after the op as the dog will be up and about and acting as if nothing has happened, except he will have no balls and a much happier , healthier, longer life.

Neutering your dog will prevent testicular cancer.

Neutering your dog will curb marking.

Neutering will reduce the urge to escape and wander in search of a mate.

Neutering may help other behavior problems. Since the dog lives with you, you're the one that has to deal with behavior problems, so you should have a say here.

The surgery is minor, done under anesthetic, and most pups are playing again as soon as the anesthetic wears off.

The younger they are when neutered the faster they heal.

Maybe in "guy" terms- by keeping him intact and unaltered, he might feel frustrated by not being allowed to breed. Fixing him will allow him to lead a more peaceful, comfortable life. No proof for this, I could just see a guy's mind working this way.

You are absolutely right that neutering is the best thing to help stop pet overpopulation. If your boyfriend prevents you from neutering the dog, he is part of the problem. Please don't let him stop you from being a responsible pet owner. I hope you can convince him.

Most men don't like the thought of "castration" it brings to mind their own manhood, so yes, you will experience resistance. A neutered dog is less likely to escape and wander miles from home, it removes the "roaming" instinct. An unfixed male will travel 10 miles to find a female in heat. It also eliminates testicular and prostate cancer later in life. If you want your little guy to live a long life then neutering is the best thing for him, otherwise come 7 - 9 he'll start to develop tumors and eventually you'd have to get him neutered to stop them [happened to my dads dog at age 9]. It's less painful for him at 7 months to get neutered than it is at 9 years. Also neutering prevents humping of you and your guests, aggression towards other dogs and even people.

Neutering is the healthy thing and the responsible thing to do for your dog.

Tell your boyfriend that a responsible dog owner gets their dog altered.

Or take your b/f to an animal shelter and say this is because the owners didn't bother to spay or neuter their animals and this is what has happened to them. One trip to the shelter is very "unsettling" to anyone, in fact it's darn right heart breaking.

Good luck to you.

Estimates across the country indicate that over 10 million animals will be humanely euthanized at shelters each year, due to the sheer fact that there are not enough homes. And most of them are not simply born on the streets, or put down due to health problems. But often they are the offspring of cherished family pets, even purebreds. Maybe someone's dog or cat got out just that one time or maybe the litter was intentional, but efforts to find enough good homes failed.

Still the result is homeless animals that have to be euthanized because there are more dogs and cats entering shelters than there are people willing to provide them with loving care. Even if you do find homes for your pet's puppies or kittens, that means there are fewer homes available to take in other pets from shelters. Spay/neuter is the only permanent, 100-percent effective method of birth control for dogs and cats.

Licensed veterinarians perform the spay or neuter operation while the pet is under anesthesia. Depending on your pet's age, size and health, he or she will stay at your veterinarian's office for a few hours or a few days. Depending upon the procedure, your pet may need stitches removed. Your veterinarian can fully explain spay and neuter procedures to you, however, so it may be worthwhile to take your boyfriend with you to speak to the vet before the operation.

Pets don't have any concept of sexual identity or ego. Neutering will not change a pet's basic personality. He doesn't suffer any kind of emotional reaction or identity crisis when neutered. You can assure him of this.

Also, neutering can drastically improve your pet's health and life expectancy. The idea that pets become fat or lazy when they are spayed or neutered is a myth. Sterilized pets lead healthier, longer lives. Neutering reduces the risk of both prostate enlargement and prostate cancer. Neutering also will make your pet more affectionate and less likely to roam, get in fights, or become lost.

Make a general appointment with the vet's office for your dog. Make sure your boyfriend comes with you. Ask your vet to tell you the benefits of neutering. If you ask them what the benefits of neutering are, they will give you pages and pages of reasons why it is good for the animal, and will prevent irresponsible or unwanted breeding. If your boyfriend is still dead set against it, then you may have to not neuter your dog, but you should stay firm on the subject of breeding. Do not give in. I can see that you are knowledgable about BYB's so I don't need to list the reasons why you should not breed your dog. Keep trying to convince your boyfriend! It really is better for the dog, and for you. Good luck and thank you for being responsible.

The dog lives with you. I'd say it's your choice, unless you legally have co-ownership on the registration papers. Tell him if he doesn't let you neuter it, since it lives in your house, when the dog hits sexual maturity and starts peeing on every vertical surface of your house, you will call him every time to come over and clean it up. He won't let you neuter, that makes the marking clean up his responsibility.

Honestly though, some men make me so mad. Try to educate him, if possible. Explain how an un neutered male dog is many times more likely to have testicular cancer. Explain the potential social problems. Many dog parks wont allow un neutered males to play there. He could mark in your house, escape out when there is a neighbor's dog in heat, and contribute to pet over population. Neutering your dog is the right thing, you know this. Try to educate him so he sees the same thing.

Good luck!

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Guys can be real wimps when it comes to neutering pets..just let him know all the things you listed about it being healthier for your dog in the long run, and healthier for pet populations everywhere, and that it is basically is the responsible thing to do. If he is not educated about responsible pet ownership, then you should be the one to teach him about it. You can also have him come to the vet with you and hear from a vet that it is the best thing to do. Or, you can just get the dog neutered, and let him get over it. If the dog is yours..you can do anything you want without your boyfriends consent.

That's the dogs 2nd offense. He's going to be put down. Most dogs usually are after they attack a 1st time. Its a shame because its not even the dogs fault. Its the prior owners fault for not training the dog better and being neglegent and its your sister in laws fault for the same two reasons plus she should have known where the dog was and never should have adopted the dog in the 1st place. Many aggressive dogs can be rehabilitated but it seems like your sis in law didn't put any effort into that at all. There's a 99.9% chance the dog will be put down and your sis in law will probably have to pay a fine. She deserves that fine though. In my opinion she deserves more than that. Her dog which she is responsible for attacked and injured your child. I think you should hold her responsible for all medical fee's and that's only a slap on the wrist. Even once your daughters wounds have healed she might have some serious fear towards dogs or ptsd. I hope she is alright.

Your dog will be in more danger of disease/cancer if you do not get him neutered. He will be healthier AND happier if you get him fixed, he will not try to be the alpha (a "follower" dog is happier than a leader) and will lessen his chance for cancer and illness later in life. All in all neutering is the right and responsible thing to do. Try to explain that the dog will only be happier, and not lose any of his "manliness" and hopefully your boyfriend will understand. If not, might want to forgo the boyfriend and just stick with the dog :)